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nayr626
09/06/17 8:40:06 PM
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Did a show together a year ago..

Anyways she's posted like 5 updates in the past 30 minutes..they sound attention seeking but I'm not sure if she's actually at that point yet.

What do I do?
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Tsukasa1891
09/06/17 9:25:54 PM
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Nothing. She wants attention and the more she gets, the more she's going to pull this shit. If she really wanted to kill herself, she'd do it and if she was just thinking of doing it, she'd look for real help, not from facebook friends.
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thronedfire2
09/06/17 9:26:26 PM
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Tsukasa1891 posted...
Nothing. She wants attention and the more she gets, the more she's going to pull this shit. If she really wanted to kill herself, she'd do it and if she was just thinking of doing it, she'd look for real help, not from facebook friends.


stop talking out your ass
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boxington
09/06/17 9:28:09 PM
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I don't think that you should ever assume that the person is just looking for attention.

but tbh, I don't know how I'd go about helping her.
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Zeeak4444
09/06/17 9:28:32 PM
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I pm everyone I see post things like that or really outside their norm.

I try to be as polite as possible, let them know they can talk with me or just vent if they want.

I never get any responses back and don't really expect to. I can't say I would respond either.

I'll continue doing it though so you can try that route if you'd like.
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ShotOJameson
09/06/17 9:28:47 PM
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nayr626 posted...
Did a show together a year ago..

Anyways she's posted like 5 updates in the past 30 minutes..they sound attention seeking but I'm not sure if she's actually at that point yet.

What do I do?


what do they say?
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nevershine
09/06/17 9:29:06 PM
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The issue is...you can't be sure if it's just attention seeking, a minor breakdown, or if serious....

I wouldn't take a chance though
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nayr626
09/06/17 10:15:53 PM
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ShotOJameson posted...
nayr626 posted...
Did a show together a year ago..

Anyways she's posted like 5 updates in the past 30 minutes..they sound attention seeking but I'm not sure if she's actually at that point yet.

What do I do?


what do they say?


Nothing direct but lots of hinting.

All I know is she's dealing with mental Issues. Not sure if she's off her meds, or if she is on anything at all.

Her parents are shit and unsupportive.

Anyways I messaged her.

nevershine posted...
The issue is...you can't be sure if it's just attention seeking, a minor breakdown, or if serious....

I wouldn't take a chance though


Yeah.

I've delt with it before and I wish someone would have reached out.
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dummy420
09/06/17 10:26:30 PM
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If you think it's serious contact the local authorities in their area.
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nayr626
09/06/17 11:36:23 PM
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She replied.

Plan to get coffee and catch up on Friday.
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Zeeak4444
09/06/17 11:38:50 PM
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nayr626 posted...
She replied.

Plan to get coffee and catch up on Friday.


I'm glad everything ended up going well!
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NeoShadowhen
09/06/17 11:41:40 PM
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dummy420 posted...
If you think it's serious contact the local authorities in their area.


I've done that before. Holy shit were they pissed. Used it as an opportunity to try and get even more attention. At least a couple people pointed out "umm, the way you were talking sounded pretty serious,".

No regrets.
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Robin_Dude
09/06/17 11:44:37 PM
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nayr626 posted...
She replied.

Plan to get coffee and catch up on Friday.

*Nods approvingly*
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EnragedSlith
09/06/17 11:45:32 PM
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nayr626 posted...
She replied.

Plan to get coffee and catch up on Friday.

Don't feel down if she doesn't follow through, but you gave her a benchmark to focus on for the moment, and that's a good thing

Gj, dude :)
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dummy420
09/07/17 7:18:45 AM
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NeoShadowhen posted...
dummy420 posted...
If you think it's serious contact the local authorities in their area.


I've done that before. Holy shit were they pissed. Used it as an opportunity to try and get even more attention. At least a couple people pointed out "umm, the way you were talking sounded pretty serious,".

No regrets.

Yep they will of course be pissed when it happens. Either they actually needed help or they are just starved for attention. I've known someone actually suicidal that was pretty pissed but really the authorities helped.
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Solar_Crimson
09/07/17 7:43:02 AM
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Deadpool_18
09/07/17 7:48:03 AM
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boxington posted...
I don't think that you should ever assume that the person is just looking for attention.


Why not? A shit ton of them are.
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Eevee-Trainer
09/07/17 9:04:26 AM
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Deadpool_18 posted...
boxington posted...
I don't think that you should ever assume that the person is just looking for attention.


Why not? A shit ton of them are.

Because what if they're serious? It's a human life you're playing with in that scenario.
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thronedfire2
09/07/17 9:08:02 AM
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Deadpool_18 posted...
boxington posted...
I don't think that you should ever assume that the person is just looking for attention.


Why not? A shit ton of them are.


How would you know unless you actually talked to them and got them to be honest.

Do you know how easy it is to say suicidal stuff and then just be like 'lol jk' if anyone acts concerned? It's very easy because of that kind of thinking.
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voldothegr8
09/07/17 9:10:06 AM
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Ctrl+f "is she hot"

No results found

WTF CE?
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Mr_Biscuit
09/07/17 9:23:33 AM
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Conflict posted...
voldothegr8 posted...
Ctrl+f "is she hot"

No results found

WTF CE?


Wow it's almost like people aren't concerned about wanting to stick their penis into someone posting about suicidal thoughts


Though I will say, on just a human level, I have NOOOO idea if TC is even remotely thinking this direction, but definitely no romantic angles until she's mentally well. Don't go down that road tbh
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Apocalyptic
09/07/17 9:28:34 AM
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Glad you took this seriously, TC. An old classmate of mine was posting depressing stuff on his social media and no one took him seriously. Not too long later, he committed suicide.
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Sativa_Rose
09/07/17 9:33:04 AM
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Nice, nothing wrong with catching up with a friend
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