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just got dumped for liking half naked pictures...i don't see the big deal but whatever.

I got dumped once for playing with a group of kids at a July 4th cookout, instead of sitting with the boring old people.

She told me she didn't want to be with a child, and it was embarrassing that I would roll around in the grass playing freeze tag and stuff.

That has to be the stupidest reason ever.
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snakes_righteye posted...

I got dumped once for playing with a group of kids at a July 4th cookout, instead of sitting with the boring old people.

She told me she didn't want to be with a child, and it was embarrassing that I would roll around in the grass playing freeze tag and stuff.

That has to be the stupidest reason ever.

I feel like her version of that event would be a lot different.
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It was my first relationship, and I suffer from anxiety so I was kinda.. lost as to what in the fuck I was meant to do different than we'd been doing leaving up to it.

Along with fact that my brother stuck the idea in my head that once you tell a girl you love her, you're a whipped beta.

I dunno. It's probably my fault, honestly.
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Was too geeky. Like she said I knew you were geeky but you actually go to conventions and stuff. So that was that.


snakes_righteye posted...

I got dumped once for playing with a group of kids at a July 4th cookout, instead of sitting with the boring old people.

She told me she didn't want to be with a child, and it was embarrassing that I would roll around in the grass playing freeze tag and stuff.

That has to be the stupidest reason ever.

Most girls would be soaked watching a guy play that well with kids.
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"it's not you, it's me"

after dating for about 3 years

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I've never actually been dumped.. Got used for sexual favors by an older woman once, who then ignored me, but I'm cool with that.
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SamusGlory posted...

"it's not you, it's me"

after dating for about 3 years

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Dating for 3 years??? That must be a new world record.

Lost_All_Senses posted...

snakes_righteye posted...

I got dumped once for playing with a group of kids at a July 4th cookout, instead of sitting with the boring old people.

She told me she didn't want to be with a child, and it was embarrassing that I would roll around in the grass playing freeze tag and stuff.

That has to be the stupidest reason ever.

I feel like her version of that event would be a lot different.

Maybe, but she was crazy. If all the Pepsi cans were not facing the same direction in the fridge, she would throw a fit. I mean a throwing things, screaming at the top of her lungs fit. I'm a calm guy, I don't get angry, that also drive her nuts. So her side will no doubtedly be different.
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snakes_righteye posted...

Lost_All_Senses posted...

snakes_righteye posted...

I got dumped once for playing with a group of kids at a July 4th cookout, instead of sitting with the boring old people.

She told me she didn't want to be with a child, and it was embarrassing that I would roll around in the grass playing freeze tag and stuff.

That has to be the stupidest reason ever.

I feel like her version of that event would be a lot different.

Maybe, but she was crazy. If all the Pepsi cans were not facing the same direction in the fridge, she would throw a fit. I mean a throwing things, screaming at the top of her lungs fit. I'm a calm guy, I don't get angry, that also drive her nuts. So her side will no doubtedly be different.

Ah, now that I know shes fickle its more believable that it could be something that small.
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When I was in the 7th grade, I knew a kid in the 6th grade that got dumped by his girlfriend for not knowing how to tie his shoe. No joke.
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her dog didn't like me. like he would sit in the corner and just stare at me and run when I would try to play with him. it was only like a 6 week college relationship so wasn't too invested.
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Sounds like there's a story there and it's probably not actually as dumb as you think.
But I got dumped because he didn't believe in long distance relationships (and we lived basically 2-3 miles apart)

I believed him but...

Ended up where the truth was he was mad that I was not having sex despite him saying he doesn't mind it that much.
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snakes_righteye posted...

Maybe, but she was crazy. If all the Pepsi cans were not facing the same direction in the fridge, she would throw a fit.

And why would you willingly choose to date a person like this?
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she wanted to understand what it was like to not have me

i cut contact and started dating someone else 48 hrs later.

she proceeded to stalk me for like two years afterward

i am kinda grateful for her stupid decisions.
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fenderbender321 posted...

KILBOTz posted...

her dog didn't like me. like he would sit in the corner and just stare at me and run when I would try to play with him. it was only like a 6 week college relationship so wasn't too invested.

If a girl's dog or cat doesn't like you, it says a lot more about her than it does about you.

I think it was a rescue abused by a man that looked like me or something but that was like 15 years ago so I'm not sure on that.
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I've only been dumped once, and it wasn't for a stupid reason: she still liked her ex fiancee and she didn't want to string me along while thinking there was still a chance for them. That was after 3 months of dating so it didn't hurt too bad.
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fenderbender321 posted...

KILBOTz posted...

her dog didn't like me. like he would sit in the corner and just stare at me and run when I would try to play with him. it was only like a 6 week college relationship so wasn't too invested.

If a girl's dog or cat doesn't like you, it says a lot more about her than it does about you.

Why? Some animals aren't social and cats are mean and ignore people
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KILBOTz posted...

I think it was a rescue abused by a man that looked like me or something but that was like 15 years ago so I'm not sure on that.

yeah it is not always so cut and dry

my sister in law's dog hates all men and paws at their nuts (hard) because he doesnt want her paying attention to anyone that isnt her. she got him as a baby puppy, and though he was a rescue, he never had any trauma. that's her fault.

otoh, the husky i fostered a year ago was just afraid of men. he warmed up to me (and actually only me) through intensive effort, but i generally advised my male friends to leave him alone because of his issues.
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LittleRoyal posted...

Sounds like there's a story there and it's probably not actually as dumb as you think.
But I got dumped because he didn't believe in long distance relationships (and we lived basically 2-3 miles apart)

I believed him but...

Ended up where the truth was he was mad that I was not having sex despite him saying he doesn't mind it that much.

This is why I constantly have to remind friends in newer relationships to stop relying so much on words and pay attention to how people act and body language. Its so silly to me how people never progressed to where this is common knowledge to the population. Still every day someone is like "What they said is different than what they want or how they feel?! Wha?!"

This is directed at the population btw. Not you...
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never dumped but my first gf asked me if we should break up because she thinks that i dont know much about dating yet, i then dumped her once i was done with her
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lolamericans posted...

never dumped but my first gf asked me if we should break up because she thinks that i dont know much about dating yet, i then dumped her once i was done with her

Not even trying to hide the inner douche eh
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Lost_All_Senses posted...

lolamericans posted...

never dumped but my first gf asked me if we should break up because she thinks that i dont know much about dating yet, i then dumped her once i was done with her

Not even trying to hide the inner douche eh

i was mad at her the whole time after she tried to break up with me, so ive just been using her for sex until i got tired of her
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lolamericans posted...

Lost_All_Senses posted...

lolamericans posted...

never dumped but my first gf asked me if we should break up because she thinks that i dont know much about dating yet, i then dumped her once i was done with her

Not even trying to hide the inner douche eh

i was mad at her the whole time after she tried to break up with me, so ive just been using her for sex until i got tired of her

Just understand its a douche move. You can do anything as long as you're self aware with it. People respect the self aware even if its not stuff they'd do.
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"it's complicated"

the two gfs I had I dumped myself, but there was this girl I was dating and she would always say her mom did not like me so she ghosted me, it was weird but whatevs.
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I didn't talk to her for two days
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Lost_All_Senses posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

Sounds like there's a story there and it's probably not actually as dumb as you think.
But I got dumped because he didn't believe in long distance relationships (and we lived basically 2-3 miles apart)

I believed him but...

Ended up where the truth was he was mad that I was not having sex despite him saying he doesn't mind it that much.

This is why I constantly have to remind friends in newer relationships to stop relying so much on words and pay attention to how people act and body language. Its so silly to me how people never progressed to where this is common knowledge to the population. Still every day someone is like "What they said is different than what they want or how they feel?! Wha?!"

This is directed at the population btw. Not you...

Ehh I believed him. Besides if that was the most important part of the relationship I would have broken up with him then. No offense to him I liked him. I just don't do it.
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i broke up with someone because of race reasons

Couldn't get off work to go to a county fair.

Said I could get off the following weekend and we should go or go a week day when it was less crowded.

Was told I never made time for her..

(we saw each other several times a week)

Was asked for an apology.

Explained I had to work and we see each other a lot.

Was dumped.

It was only like 3 months so probably for the best.
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USANumber1 posted...

i broke up with someone because of race reasons

*gasp* tell me tell me tell me tell me tell me tell me tell me tell me tell me tell me tell me tell me
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Lost_All_Senses posted...

lolamericans posted...

Lost_All_Senses posted...

lolamericans posted...

never dumped but my first gf asked me if we should break up because she thinks that i dont know much about dating yet, i then dumped her once i was done with her

Not even trying to hide the inner douche eh

i was mad at her the whole time after she tried to break up with me, so ive just been using her for sex until i got tired of her

Just understand its a douche move. You can do anything as long as you're self aware with it. People respect the self aware even if its not stuff they'd do.

I do and i felt terrible
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In 6th grade, I got dumped because I wouldn't touch her butt on a field trip.

I didn't want to get in trouble.
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I got dumped for playing videogames before. Not because I played them excessively and had no social life but simply because I'm a little passionate about gaming and own arcade sticks and the like.
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That_Happened posted...

snakes_righteye posted...

Maybe, but she was crazy. If all the Pepsi cans were not facing the same direction in the fridge, she would throw a fit.

And why would you willingly choose to date a person like this?

She was very pretty with an amazing body. So you know how that goes.
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Not helping her move on a day I had told her I was going out with co-workers more than a week in advance