Current Events > Man I miss being like 20 and horny all the time.

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Now I'm rapidly closing in on 30 and I'm only really in the mood a few times a week.

Why didn't anyone warn me this would happen :(
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RIP Man I miss and shot up less boners
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Well you could wait 20 or so years. My mid 30's into now 40 I'm constantly horny all the time too. Far more than my 20's.
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You probably just got lazy, I'm in the 30s and could do it more or less whenevz, unless hungry. Food first.
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Well it's not that I can't. I still have sex with my girlfriend at least once a week and watch porn once a week, never have any problems doing so. It's more just that I remember when I was younger and like I craved sex/deeding on an everyday basis. Now it's more just when the opportunity arises and I'm not actively thinking about it all the time.

Good to know though that apparently there's a rebound in the mid 30s though.
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You miss that?
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CapnMuffin posted...

You miss that?

Yes. It was fun.
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Libido is heavily tied to your health and emotional state. Lift and get plenty of rest if you aren't
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For me personally and for my wife, I think it's as we became more comfortable and open with each other sexually it became more intense and exhilarating. We've done more sexually in the last 7-8 years together than we did the first ten. Maybe it's a continued familiarity with a person too. That I can only speculate though as my wife is the only woman I've been with sexually.
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I'm 30 and horny all the time
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Try doing nofap and meditation for a month at a time and you'll be rebooted

EnragedSlith posted...

Libido is heavily tied to your health and emotional state. Lift and get plenty of rest if you aren't

I work out regularly and we just got engaged...

I probably could stand to get more sleep though. I usually only get like 6 or 7.

BlackDruidLOL posted...

Try doing nofap and meditation for a month at a time and you'll be rebooted

Does nofap include nosex?
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33 and still horny all the time
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i hated those years, especially when my social skills sucked with girls
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idk man im 27, gf is 30, we bone twice a day for the most part
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We usually go to the gym twice a week and play tennis once a week.

Should I step it up?
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ForestLogic posted...

Well it's not that I can't. I still have sex with my girlfriend at least once a week and watch porn once a week, never have any problems doing so. It's more just that I remember when I was younger and like I craved sex/deeding on an everyday basis. Now it's more just when the opportunity arises and I'm not actively thinking about it all the time.

Good to know though that apparently there's a rebound in the mid 30s though.

Only once a week? Pitiful
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ForestLogic posted...

We usually go to the gym twice a week and play tennis once a week.

Should I step it up?

Just step it up homie, you don't really have anything to lose. When my woman and I first got together we decided twice a day was healthy enough for both of us after a few conversations about it.
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I mean most of my friends that are married or in long-term relationships have told me they do it like a couple times a month tops, so I assumed once a week was pretty good.

Also I want to step it up but whole point of this thread was about how I'm not as horny as I used to be when I was younger. When I said step it up, I meant should we go to the gym more than once or twice a week.
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ForestLogic posted...

Does nofap include nosex?

when i have sex my libido is down for days, but I can fap every day if i wanted to... everyone's different but I would try not having sex or fapping for at least 2 weeks and see where you are!

I'm 30 and bone my girlfriend and/or our mistress once a day or every other day, maybe you need to spice up your sex life and try some new things like role play or cosplay sex.
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You have low testosterone. Get your levels checked. 30 is too early to have low libido. The good news is that you can fix it. Eat more fatty foods and others foods that increase nitrite oxide. Stop eating junk food because it does nothing good to your libido. Just one more thing: Exercise. High intensity workouts will make you horny.
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Whoa whoa, I never said it was LOW. It just isn't this 24/7 thing that it used to be.

And like I said, I exercise regularly, but I guess it just might not be often enough?
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I'm more horny at 28 then when I was 18

cerealbox760 posted...

Eat more fatty foods and others foods that increase nitrite oxide

Examples of these types of foods?

As for the testosterone thing, yeah that shit helps. I take a T booster if I go a few months without working out just to get back into a grind and I still had energy to bang my gf after the gym (and showering of course)
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28 and just as horny or even hornier than I was a decade ago.
Every other woman I see causes my imagination to go wild.
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