Current Events > I don't get it. Why would you willingly date a single mom?

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whenever I see them on dating sites I wonder who's encouraging this.
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Maybe some people like kids?
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Are they to just never have a sex life ever again and live like a shut-in for the rest of their life?

They shouldn't even be single in the first place tbh
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It was that god damn sasquatch
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Some people have less than 70 IQ that's why.

I'd consider it, but it'd be very unlikely.
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MakoReizei posted...

They shouldn't even be single in the first place tbh

What?

MakoReizei posted...

They shouldn't even be single in the first place tbh

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Yeah, but nothing serious. Dating single moms casually is pretty great. Any time you link up, you know she got a babysitter and it's an easy lay.
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Buy 1 get 1 free.
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After a certain age it becomes nearly impossible to meet someone who isn't one. Lots even have kids with multiple fathers. People make some pretty not great life choices, haha.

Turning 31 this month and I'd practically kill to meet a woman around my age who didn't have any kids. I pretty much have to go all the way down to the 18-20 range if I want that.
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So if you met the perfect woman but she had a 1 year old son, you wouldn't date her just because she has a son?
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Because chemistry beats all those silly conditions.

It's not a deal breaker for me. But I do think she would have to be extra great for me to want her.

White Knight Syndrome

They wanna be the guy that sweeps the struggling single mom off her feet.
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Don't date em, but instead have an easy one night stand.
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Albel-Nox posted...

MakoReizei posted...

They shouldn't even be single in the first place tbh

What?

He means they shouldn't have had a baby with a guy they weren't 100% sure about. It's not a big ask. People are thick as fuck tbqh, they have babies and don't even think about it properly. It's fucking disgraceful.
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ThePredominate posted...

Albel-Nox posted...

MakoReizei posted...

They shouldn't even be single in the first place tbh

What?

He means they shouldn't have had a baby with a guy they weren't 100% sure about. It's not a big ask. People are thick as fuck tbqh, they have babies and don't even think about it properly. It's fucking disgraceful.

Yea. Everyone makes mistakes here and there.

But the original quote said something different than what you're saying.

Imagine, the baby daddy was the average CEman...

She's single by choice.

Because dating a mom who's in a relationship is much more risky. :v

What about a single dad?
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I worked with a single mom of three kids with three different dads. She was average looking and had the worst attitude I have ever seen in a woman.
Someone else married her.
Guys are desperate.
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because the box is bomb
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who cares what other people date?
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How else are single moms supposed to meet people?

So long as they're upfront about it, I don't care.
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Single dads should have no problem dating single moms. I would never date a single mom if I didn't already have kids though.

coolcono posted...

I worked with a single mom of three kids with three different dads. She was average looking and had the worst attitude I have ever seen in a woman.
Someone else married her.
Guys are desperate.

She wasn't fat.
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Once you get to a certain age, like your thirties, it gets harder to meet women your age who don't have a kid. A 40-year-old has less choice in the matter than a 20-year-old.
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a co-worker of mine completely fell head over heels of a 30-something mom who "wasn't" single but had 3 kids... each with a different man.

she was pretty hot to begin with but damn... those were some serious warning flags all right.
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My friend is a single mom, but there's no way she could've known it. The ex she was with was really nice and they've been together for a few years, but then all of a sudden once she had the baby he turned out to be a real shit head that abused her.

Sometimes things just don't work out even if you feel it's right. Some people change once they have kids.
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An alarming trend I've noticed among a very large amount of men in 2017 is that they possess almost none of the characteristics that have made men who they are for thousands of years. In fact, these creatures can only be considered "men" in the sense that they have aged the correct number of years to be considered adult males.

These men (most of who are liberals) tend to have an enormous sense of entitlement, shirk responsibility, fear commitment, and only opt to do things when it is directly rewarding to them. In a sense, they are not real men but rather adult children, with a narrow mindset and no capacity to look at the "big picture."

No area is this more evident in than when you will see many of these "men" (liberals) talk about how they refuse to date a woman simply because she is a single mom, and they don't want to "raise another man's kid."

This is disgusting. Not only are these men choosing loneliness and isolation over a healthy adult relationship because of a human life, but they are also depriving themselves of one of the greatest joys of life (fatherhood) simply because they did not contribute DNA to this child.

For the last 2 years, I have been dating a single mom, and it has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden are like my own children to me, and even though I do not share a DNA bond with them and they call me by my first name, I feel a powerful and immutable connection. It takes a big man to want to become a dad to these kids, to help a single mom in her noble quest, and to deal with the fathers of Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden, and I believe I am that man.

It is very disheartening to see so many young men fall into the trap of entitlement and selfishness - to avoid family life based on some silly preconceived notions, to feel they are entitled to have a family on THEIR terms, and to only have children when it provides some sense of satisfaction to them. To me, it personally fulfilling to watch Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden every other weekend (hearing them say "oh, hey Pete" when I come over is one of the most satisfying things in a "father's" life), and I don't need the satisfaction that I somehow contributed to the conception of these children.
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Romulox28 posted...

An alarming trend I've noticed among a very large amount of men in 2017 is that they possess almost none of the characteristics that have made men who they are for thousands of years. In fact, these creatures can only be considered "men" in the sense that they have aged the correct number of years to be considered adult males.

These men (most of who are liberals) tend to have an enormous sense of entitlement, shirk responsibility, fear commitment, and only opt to do things when it is directly rewarding to them. In a sense, they are not real men but rather adult children, with a narrow mindset and no capacity to look at the "big picture."

No area is this more evident in than when you will see many of these "men" (liberals) talk about how they refuse to date a woman simply because she is a single mom, and they don't want to "raise another man's kid."

This is disgusting. Not only are these men choosing loneliness and isolation over a healthy adult relationship because of a human life, but they are also depriving themselves of one of the greatest joys of life (fatherhood) simply because they did not contribute DNA to this child.

For the last 2 years, I have been dating a single mom, and it has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden are like my own children to me, and even though I do not share a DNA bond with them and they call me by my first name, I feel a powerful and immutable connection. It takes a big man to want to become a dad to these kids, to help a single mom in her noble quest, and to deal with the fathers of Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden, and I believe I am that man.

It is very disheartening to see so many young men fall into the trap of entitlement and selfishness - to avoid family life based on some silly preconceived notions, to feel they are entitled to have a family on THEIR terms, and to only have children when it provides some sense of satisfaction to them. To me, it personally fulfilling to watch Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden every other weekend (hearing them say "oh, hey Pete" when I come over is one of the most satisfying things in a "father's" life), and I don't need the satisfaction that I somehow contributed to the conception of these children.

LOL I love this pasta
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FluttershyPony posted...

Some people have less than 70 IQ that's why.

This topic proves that alright.
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I was hoping to see that post lmao
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Conflict posted...

ThePredominate posted...

Albel-Nox posted...

MakoReizei posted...

They shouldn't even be single in the first place tbh

What?

He means they shouldn't have had a baby with a guy they weren't 100% sure about. It's not a big ask. People are thick as fuck tbqh, they have babies and don't even think about it properly. It's fucking disgraceful.

Relationships are still capable of going sour even if the two have kids. This is a really dumb stance to take

This.

Anyone with more than 10 years life experience should feel like a total idiot for making such a profoundly moronic statement.
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CanuckCowboy posted...

Conflict posted...

ThePredominate posted...

Albel-Nox posted...

MakoReizei posted...

They shouldn't even be single in the first place tbh

What?

He means they shouldn't have had a baby with a guy they weren't 100% sure about. It's not a big ask. People are thick as fuck tbqh, they have babies and don't even think about it properly. It's fucking disgraceful.

Relationships are still capable of going sour even if the two have kids. This is a really dumb stance to take

This.

Anyone with more than 10 years life experience should feel like a total idiot for making such a profoundly moronic statement.

Not only am I completely in the right, you're both ignorant of the gravity of creating a life.

People as a whole treat it like a joke, with bizarre nonchalance. It's pretty fucking easy not to have a child. If we're talking accidental pregnancies then have an abortion or give it up for adoption. If people maybe uh, fucking stayed together for 5 years first there would be no problem. But people are stupid and just fuck and have kids like it isn't a big deal. And then the kids have a shitty life because the whole family environment is gone. If you are having a kid, fuck your happiness, fuck you, you're the one who had the kid so you should stay together. Don't like it? Why have the kid then?!
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Conflict posted...

ThePredominate posted...

Albel-Nox posted...

MakoReizei posted...

They shouldn't even be single in the first place tbh

What?

He means they shouldn't have had a baby with a guy they weren't 100% sure about. It's not a big ask. People are thick as fuck tbqh, they have babies and don't even think about it properly. It's fucking disgraceful.

Relationships are still capable of going sour even if the two have kids. This is a really dumb stance to take

Because single moms are desperate
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Sativa_Rose posted...

Maybe some people like kids?

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A guy that can't even get his dick wet has no business judging who others date

@Albel-Nox

Until you respond with more than a quote and manage to prove what I said to be wrong, you don't have any ground to stand on tbqh
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Lmao!

Not sure if serious.

Cucks don't mind
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Because she's hot and I'm not looking for a wife.
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Axiom posted...

A guy that can't even get his dick wet has no business judging who others date

Single moms are good for hit it and quit its, but no one seriously dates them only casually.

If you have a chance to bang a single mom go for it but don't ever date one seriously unless your a masochist.
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Offworlder1 posted...

Single moms are good for hit it and quit its, but no one seriously dates them only casually.

If you have a chance to bang a single mom go for it but don't ever date one seriously unless your a masochist.

Well don't mislead them about your intentions at least. If you just want casual sex, don't lead them on into thinking you want a serious relationship.
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@Sativa_Rose

I am upfront and honest, just telling others to only have casual fun with single moms, not saying to lie or lead them on.
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Offworlder1 posted...

@Sativa_Rose

I am upfront and honest, just telling others to only have casual fun with single moms, not saying to lie or lead them on.

Okay, well in that case I don't have any issues
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