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butthole666 08/01/17 1:22:17 AM #1:	All the fucked up shit she put me through and I'm still so torn up over not being with her and not being able to talk to her without me feeling weird/having a panic attack She became my best friend and then it all went to shit because we started dating This has been the worst year of my life --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:883968888] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>All the fucked up shit she put me through and I'm still so torn up over not being with her and not being able to talk to her without me feeling weird/having a panic attack She became my best friend and then it all went to shit because we started dating This has been the worst year of my life</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheDarkCircle 08/01/17 1:25:24 AM #2:	Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that <cite>TheDarkCircle posted [p:883969006] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 08/01/17 1:27:29 AM #3:	TheDarkCircle posted... Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that I've seen what he's said about her, she does not seem like a good person to be around. I can understand why you miss her, and I'm sure you're feeling like you should try to help her, but some situations are just too bad to be involved --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:883969099] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that</quote> I've seen what he's said about her, she does not seem like a good person to be around. I can understand why you miss her, and I'm sure you're feeling like you should try to help her, but some situations are just too bad to be involved</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 08/01/17 1:28:04 AM #4:	We do still talk and I just feel on edge when we do now because I know she isn't actually better and I know she's still looking for ways to get me back and I'm too broken to help her if shit hits the fan again I'm so fucking worried about her all the time still and I know my presence in her life can only make things worse and vice versa --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:883969122] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>We do still talk and I just feel on edge when we do now because I know she isn't actually better and I know she's still looking for ways to get me back and I'm too broken to help her if shit hits the fan again I'm so fucking worried about her all the time still and I know my presence in her life can only make things worse and vice versa</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JOSGABRIEL 08/01/17 1:28:17 AM #5:	Ex's are not to be missed. You should despise her. --- --*PSN:* Jos2793 <cite>JOSGABRIEL posted [p:883969131] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>Ex's are not to be missed. You should despise her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheDarkCircle 08/01/17 1:29:03 AM #6:	thronedfire2 posted... TheDarkCircle posted... Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that I've seen what he's said about her, she does not seem like a good person to be around. I can understand why you miss her, and I'm sure you're feeling like you should try to help her, but some situations are just too bad to be involved Ahh I see, yeah man if it's unhealthy then it's probably for the best. <cite>TheDarkCircle posted [p:883969144] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>thronedfire2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that</quote> I've seen what he's said about her, she does not seem like a good person to be around. I can understand why you miss her, and I'm sure you're feeling like you should try to help her, but some situations are just too bad to be involved</quote> Ahh I see, yeah man if it's unhealthy then it's probably for the best.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 08/01/17 1:29:53 AM #7:	As much as she talks about having gotten some medical attention for certain things, being on anti depressants, etc, i know it's all still just her trying to placate those around her who are worried and especially me, all the red flags and "but I didn't ACTUALLY listen to them" shit is still there --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:883969174] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>As much as she talks about having gotten some medical attention for certain things, being on anti depressants, etc, i know it's all still just her trying to placate those around her who are worried and especially me, all the red flags and "but I didn't ACTUALLY listen to them" shit is still there</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlazeYoungblood 08/01/17 1:42:18 AM #8:	TheDarkCircle posted... Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that This is a lame gimmick bro --- Incarnot <cite>BlazeYoungblood posted [p:883969659] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that</quote> This is a lame gimmick bro</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheDarkCircle 08/01/17 1:43:40 AM #9:	BlazeYoungblood posted... TheDarkCircle posted... Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that This is a lame gimmick bro why is everyone obsessed by this? <cite>TheDarkCircle posted [p:883969715] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>BlazeYoungblood posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that</quote> This is a lame gimmick bro</quote> why is everyone obsessed by this?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kontal-Kontil 08/01/17 1:45:41 AM #10:	I hope I never feel this way. Someone told me once that we always miss the ones that caused the most turmoil in our lives, and he would definitely take the cake with that. --- "I laughed and said, 'Life is easy'. What I meant was, Life is easy with you here, and when you leave, it will be hard again. <cite>Kontal-Kontil posted [p:883969782] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>I hope I never feel this way. Someone told me once that we always miss the ones that caused the most turmoil in our lives, and he would definitely take the cake with that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Super Slash 08/01/17 1:55:44 AM #12:	shockthemonkey posted... she literally tried to kill me wtf <cite>Super Slash posted [p:883970130] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>she literally tried to kill me</quote> wtf</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 08/01/17 1:58:11 AM #13:	Super Slash posted... shockthemonkey posted... she literally tried to kill me wtf is it bad that I didn't really think too much about it when I read that? --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:883970216] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>Super Slash posted...</cite> <quote><cite>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>she literally tried to kill me</quote> wtf</quote> is it bad that I didn't really think too much about it when I read that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 08/01/17 2:09:01 AM #14:	thronedfire2 posted... Super Slash posted... shockthemonkey posted... she literally tried to kill me wtf is it bad that I didn't really think too much about it when I read that? My last insane ex was fucking dangerous as well. She is also doing really bad according to her roommate. --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:883970552] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>thronedfire2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Super Slash posted...</cite> <quote><cite>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>she literally tried to kill me</quote> wtf</quote> is it bad that I didn't really think too much about it when I read that?</quote> My last insane ex was fucking dangerous as well. She is also doing really bad according to her roommate.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The23rdMagus 08/01/17 2:11:44 AM #15:	I'm glad I finally reconnected with mine. Mistakes were made on both our parts, and while it's highly unlikely we'd wind up back together, it's good to have my best friend back. I missed her wit and creativity. --- ~Drewnami: The Drew abides.~ Gonads are useful for their purpose, but they are no substitute for brains. -Paul Harvey <cite>The23rdMagus posted [p:883970642] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>I'm glad I finally reconnected with mine. Mistakes were made on both our parts, and while it's highly unlikely we'd wind up back together, it's good to have my best friend back. I missed her wit and creativity.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 08/01/17 2:20:19 AM #16:	TheDarkCircle posted... Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that Don't do that. If you stay part of her life when you're emotionally tied to her, you'll be on her hook. Any time she seems available you'll want in. Plus when you find out about her next bf and her you'll die and deny it. When you hear about them having sex it will kill you. Don't be her friend when you're emotionally vulnerable it doesn't work. --- I-I really needed this~~ Time to stomp some faces!!! <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:883970925] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that</quote> Don't do that. If you stay part of her life when you're emotionally tied to her, you'll be on her hook. Any time she seems available you'll want in. Plus when you find out about her next bf and her you'll die and deny it. When you hear about them having sex it will kill you. Don't be her friend when you're emotionally vulnerable it doesn't work.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 08/01/17 2:29:08 AM #17:	LittleRoyal posted... TheDarkCircle posted... Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that Don't do that. If you stay part of her life when you're emotionally tied to her, you'll be on her hook. Any time she seems available you'll want in. Plus when you find out about her next bf and her you'll die and deny it. When you hear about them having sex it will kill you. Don't be her friend when you're emotionally vulnerable it doesn't work. The inverse is much more likely to be an issue. --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:883971197] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>Why don't u just reach out? If you care that much, just stay friends. If you both actually care you two can find a way to do that</quote> Don't do that. If you stay part of her life when you're emotionally tied to her, you'll be on her hook. Any time she seems available you'll want in. Plus when you find out about her next bf and her you'll die and deny it. When you hear about them having sex it will kill you. Don't be her friend when you're emotionally vulnerable it doesn't work.</quote> The inverse is much more likely to be an issue.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 08/01/17 2:35:49 AM #18:	Fine do what you want ~ --- I-I really needed this~~ Time to stomp some faces!!! <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:883971391] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>Fine do what you want ~</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ridaoct17 08/01/17 4:21:50 AM #19:	My ex is hella attractive and I miss mot having the chance to ... --- https://twitter.com/ridachea <cite>ridaoct17 posted [p:883974039] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>My ex is hella attractive and I miss mot having the chance to ...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
fuzzylittlbunny 08/01/17 5:23:52 AM #20:	TheDarkCircle posted... Why don't u just reach out? There was no truth :D ...I'll be showing myself out before the rotten tomatoes are thrown :< --- ( ^_^)/\(^_^ ) Maya high five! <cite>fuzzylittlbunny posted [p:883975242] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>Why don't u just reach out? </quote> There was no truth :D ...I'll be showing myself out before the rotten tomatoes are thrown :<</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Super Slash 08/01/17 5:25:52 AM #21:	fuzzylittlbunny posted... TheDarkCircle posted... Why don't u just reach out? There was no truth :D ...I'll be showing myself out before the rotten tomatoes are thrown :< I never saw that CO-MIIIIIIIIIN <cite>Super Slash posted [p:883975283] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>fuzzylittlbunny posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>Why don't u just reach out? </quote> There was no truth :D ...I'll be showing myself out before the rotten tomatoes are thrown :<</quote> I never saw that CO-MIIIIIIIIIN</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
l Dudeboy l 08/01/17 5:27:41 AM #22:	TC, you need to cut this person out of your life before she drags you down with her. Trust me. I've been there. Things will not get better and it does not end well. --- You are now breathing manually. Lets put a little lead in the air, and see what falls over. <cite>l Dudeboy l posted [p:883975323] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>TC, you need to cut this person out of your life before she drags you down with her. Trust me. I've been there. Things will not get better and it does not end well.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
fuzzylittlbunny 08/01/17 5:37:11 AM #23:	JOSGABRIEL posted... Ex's are not to be missed. You should despise her. But in all seriousness I miss my ex. She did literally nothing to upset me even the slightest. Nothing. She was always smiling and cheerful. She would give me gifts out of the blue, bought or handmade. She remembered that I liked Gundam models, and that the Strike Freedom was one of my favorites. One day when I meet her for a date she's carrying a box with guess what inside lol (the box is 22x10x3 inches; not something that's exactly convenient to walk around for the night). And even though she said she wanted to wait until she was married to have sex, she ended up being the one to initiate it one night :3 tl;dr I have never met a nicer girl in my life and will never stop missing her. It's because of her that I refer to cats as "meow meows" now :(( --- ( ^_^)/\(^_^ ) Maya high five! <cite>fuzzylittlbunny posted [p:883975509] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>JOSGABRIEL posted...</cite> <quote>Ex's are not to be missed. You should despise her.</quote> But in all seriousness I miss my ex. She did literally nothing to upset me even the slightest. Nothing. She was always smiling and cheerful. She would give me gifts out of the blue, bought or handmade. She remembered that I liked Gundam models, and that the Strike Freedom was one of my favorites. One day when I meet her for a date she's carrying a box with guess what inside lol (the box is 22x10x3 inches; not something that's exactly convenient to walk around for the night). And even though she said she wanted to wait until she was married to have sex, she ended up being the one to initiate it one night :3 tl;dr I have never met a nicer girl in my life and will never stop missing her. It's because of her that I refer to cats as "meow meows" now :((</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kontal-Kontil 08/01/17 6:50:48 AM #24:	fuzzylittlbunny posted... JOSGABRIEL posted... Ex's are not to be missed. You should despise her. But in all seriousness I miss my ex. She did literally nothing to upset me even the slightest. Nothing. She was always smiling and cheerful. She would give me gifts out of the blue, bought or handmade. She remembered that I liked Gundam models, and that the Strike Freedom was one of my favorites. One day when I meet her for a date she's carrying a box with guess what inside lol (the box is 22x10x3 inches; not something that's exactly convenient to walk around for the night). And even though she said she wanted to wait until she was married to have sex, she ended up being the one to initiate it one night :3 tl;dr I have never met a nicer girl in my life and will never stop missing her. It's because of her that I refer to cats as "meow meows" now :(( Why did you guys break up? --- "I laughed and said, 'Life is easy'. What I meant was, Life is easy with you here, and when you leave, it will be hard again. <cite>Kontal-Kontil posted [p:883976974] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>fuzzylittlbunny posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JOSGABRIEL posted...</cite> <quote>Ex's are not to be missed. You should despise her.</quote> But in all seriousness I miss my ex. She did literally nothing to upset me even the slightest. Nothing. She was always smiling and cheerful. She would give me gifts out of the blue, bought or handmade. She remembered that I liked Gundam models, and that the Strike Freedom was one of my favorites. One day when I meet her for a date she's carrying a box with guess what inside lol (the box is 22x10x3 inches; not something that's exactly convenient to walk around for the night). And even though she said she wanted to wait until she was married to have sex, she ended up being the one to initiate it one night :3 tl;dr I have never met a nicer girl in my life and will never stop missing her. It's because of her that I refer to cats as "meow meows" now :((</quote> Why did you guys break up?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
fuzzylittlbunny 08/01/17 7:12:38 AM #25:	She moved to New Orleans for dental college. That's the problem with living in Hawaii; you have to take a plane to see anyone else. And she needed to live there for a year first to get residency so college would be cheaper. 9 years + 4,000 miles apart = yeah, I'm never seeing her again :(( It's so horrible having a break up when there without a negative reason. I actually would've wanted to have a big fight or something so that at least I would have reason to be happy that she's not around. But nope. That song Daylight by Maroon 5 tells my experience with her really well. --- ( ^_^)/\(^_^ ) Maya high five! <cite>fuzzylittlbunny posted [p:883977391] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>She moved to New Orleans for dental college. That's the problem with living in Hawaii; you have to take a plane to see anyone else. And she needed to live there for a year first to get residency so college would be cheaper. 9 years + 4,000 miles apart = yeah, I'm never seeing her again :(( It's so horrible having a break up when there without a negative reason. I actually would've wanted to have a big fight or something so that at least I would have reason to be happy that she's not around. But nope. That song Daylight by Maroon 5 tells my experience with her really well.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AbstraktProfSC2 08/01/17 7:12:57 AM #26:	fuzzylittlbunny posted... JOSGABRIEL posted... Ex's are not to be missed. You should despise her. But in all seriousness I miss my ex. She did literally nothing to upset me even the slightest. Nothing. She was always smiling and cheerful. She would give me gifts out of the blue, bought or handmade. She remembered that I liked Gundam models, and that the Strike Freedom was one of my favorites. One day when I meet her for a date she's carrying a box with guess what inside lol (the box is 22x10x3 inches; not something that's exactly convenient to walk around for the night). And even though she said she wanted to wait until she was married to have sex, she ended up being the one to initiate it one night :3 tl;dr I have never met a nicer girl in my life and will never stop missing her. It's because of her that I refer to cats as "meow meows" now :(( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lHpHxLZReiI --- Talk about backseat fishing. <cite>AbstraktProfSC2 posted [p:883977400] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>fuzzylittlbunny posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JOSGABRIEL posted...</cite> <quote>Ex's are not to be missed. You should despise her.</quote> But in all seriousness I miss my ex. She did literally nothing to upset me even the slightest. Nothing. She was always smiling and cheerful. She would give me gifts out of the blue, bought or handmade. She remembered that I liked Gundam models, and that the Strike Freedom was one of my favorites. One day when I meet her for a date she's carrying a box with guess what inside lol (the box is 22x10x3 inches; not something that's exactly convenient to walk around for the night). And even though she said she wanted to wait until she was married to have sex, she ended up being the one to initiate it one night :3 tl;dr I have never met a nicer girl in my life and will never stop missing her. It's because of her that I refer to cats as "meow meows" now :((</quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lHpHxLZReiI</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenshock 08/01/17 7:18:31 AM #27:	I don't miss mine She literally tried to get me to sell the house my parents left me to pay for her student debts --- I don't hate people, people hate me. <cite>frozenshock posted [p:883977534] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>I don't miss mine She literally tried to get me to sell the house my parents left me to pay for her student debts</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kontal-Kontil 08/02/17 3:37:10 PM #28:	The23rdMagus posted... I'm glad I finally reconnected with mine. Mistakes were made on both our parts, and while it's highly unlikely we'd wind up back together, it's good to have my best friend back. I missed her wit and creativity. My ex was my best friend. Like seriously, I don't think I'll have a friendship like that again. He's sent me to the hospital twice since we broke up though, and trying to have a friendship after that is kind of difficult. It just sucks because I know it was a once in a lifetime connection - it just wasn't meant to get romantic. If he would of realized that when I did we could still be close right now. --- "I laughed and said, 'Life is easy'. What I meant was, Life is easy with you here, and when you leave, it will be hard again. <cite>Kontal-Kontil posted [p:884061801] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>The23rdMagus posted...</cite> <quote>I'm glad I finally reconnected with mine. Mistakes were made on both our parts, and while it's highly unlikely we'd wind up back together, it's good to have my best friend back. I missed her wit and creativity.</quote> My ex was my best friend. Like seriously, I don't think I'll have a friendship like that again. He's sent me to the hospital twice since we broke up though, and trying to have a friendship after that is kind of difficult. It just sucks because I know it was a once in a lifetime connection - it just wasn't meant to get romantic. If he would of realized that when I did we could still be close right now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenshock 08/03/17 5:27:44 PM #29:	Kontal-Kontil posted... He's sent me to the hospital twice since we broke up though wtf --- I don't hate people, people hate me. <cite>frozenshock posted [p:884130370] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kontal-Kontil posted...</cite> <quote>He's sent me to the hospital twice since we broke up though</quote> wtf</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kontal-Kontil 08/03/17 5:40:50 PM #30:	frozenshock posted... Kontal-Kontil posted... He's sent me to the hospital twice since we broke up though wtf Anger issues, we lived together for too long after we broke up. They were actually accidents, but yeah still shitty. --- "I laughed and said, 'Life is easy'. What I meant was, Life is easy with you here, and when you leave, it will be hard again. <cite>Kontal-Kontil posted [p:884131121] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kontal-Kontil posted...</cite> <quote>He's sent me to the hospital twice since we broke up though</quote> wtf</quote> Anger issues, we lived together for too long after we broke up. They were actually accidents, but yeah still shitty.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenshock 08/03/17 5:45:51 PM #31:	Kontal-Kontil posted... frozenshock posted... Kontal-Kontil posted... He's sent me to the hospital twice since we broke up though wtf Anger issues, we lived together for too long after we broke up. They were actually accidents, but yeah still shitty. Anger issues or accidents? Do you mean "I meant to punch the wall but your nose was in the way" kind of accidents? Seriously, fuck violent people --- I don't hate people, people hate me. <cite>frozenshock posted [p:884131444] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kontal-Kontil posted...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kontal-Kontil posted...</cite> <quote>He's sent me to the hospital twice since we broke up though</quote> wtf</quote> Anger issues, we lived together for too long after we broke up. They were actually accidents, but yeah still shitty.</quote> Anger issues or accidents? Do you mean "I meant to punch the wall but your nose was in the way" kind of accidents? Seriously, fuck violent people</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kontal-Kontil 08/03/17 5:49:50 PM #32:	@frozenshock He punches a lot of walls, funny thing is 8 years together and he didn't get "physical" with me until after we broke up. Accidents like we're arguing and I'm trying to leave the room - he's stopping me, pushes me back and I fall and hit something. He's never directly hit or anything, but yeah. Fuck anger issues. Some people just need to learn when to take a chill pill and breather and come back to the situation with a clear head rather than flip out immediately. --- "I laughed and said, 'Life is easy'. What I meant was, Life is easy with you here, and when you leave, it will be hard again. <cite>Kontal-Kontil posted [p:884131704] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>@frozenshock He punches a lot of walls, funny thing is 8 years together and he didn't get "physical" with me until after we broke up. Accidents like we're arguing and I'm trying to leave the room - he's stopping me, pushes me back and I fall and hit something. He's never directly hit or anything, but yeah. Fuck anger issues. Some people just need to learn when to take a chill pill and breather and come back to the situation with a clear head rather than flip out immediately.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenshock 08/03/17 5:53:07 PM #33:	That is really fucked up I would tell anyone to run far far far away from any guy who shows signs of violence or lack of restraint Before meeting me, my gf was dating a guy who was a semi-pro football player. Apparently he was nice to her but there were times that he'd totally lose control and start throwing things around the house, punching walls, etc. One time it scared her more than usual and she dumped him. I think if she hadn't done that she'd have a few broken noses There's no cure for people who have violent streaks. They're going to lose control, then regret it and apologize, then do it again. It never ends. --- I don't hate people, people hate me. <cite>frozenshock posted [p:884131878] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>That is really fucked up I would tell anyone to run far far far away from any guy who shows signs of violence or lack of restraint Before meeting me, my gf was dating a guy who was a semi-pro football player. Apparently he was nice to her but there were times that he'd totally lose control and start throwing things around the house, punching walls, etc. One time it scared her more than usual and she dumped him. I think if she hadn't done that she'd have a few broken noses There's no cure for people who have violent streaks. They're going to lose control, then regret it and apologize, then do it again. It never ends.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kontal-Kontil 08/03/17 5:58:59 PM #34:	Definitely! He was unmedicated Bi-polar too which I think was a huge contribution factor. He wasn't a terrible guy, but since we broke up he's been such a pain to be around that I almost forgot what I had liked about him in the first place. Just over shadowed by his negativity. I've known him since I was 5. That's good your GF left that situation, because if it's frequent it can always escalate and when people are in those moods they kind of lose control of themselves for a little. --- "I laughed and said, 'Life is easy'. What I meant was, Life is easy with you here, and when you leave, it will be hard again. <cite>Kontal-Kontil posted [p:884132222] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>Definitely! He was unmedicated Bi-polar too which I think was a huge contribution factor. He wasn't a terrible guy, but since we broke up he's been such a pain to be around that I almost forgot what I had liked about him in the first place. Just over shadowed by his negativity. I've known him since I was 5. That's good your GF left that situation, because if it's frequent it can always escalate and when people are in those moods they kind of lose control of themselves for a little.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenshock 08/03/17 6:48:27 PM #35:	I guess we all have our ways to cope. Some people get aggressive and violent. Others drink alcohol, or smoke cigarettes. In my case I get withdrawn and binge on cake and pizza. It's just ingrained defense mechanisms... it doesn't really change with time No one's perfect... and IMO saying that you should stay away from anyone who shows violent streaks is not about judging anyone or calling anyone deep down a bad person, it's more about self defense and doing what's best for you --- I don't hate people, people hate me. <cite>frozenshock posted [p:884135173] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>I guess we all have our ways to cope. Some people get aggressive and violent. Others drink alcohol, or smoke cigarettes. In my case I get withdrawn and binge on cake and pizza. It's just ingrained defense mechanisms... it doesn't really change with time No one's perfect... and IMO saying that you should stay away from anyone who shows violent streaks is not about judging anyone or calling anyone deep down a bad person, it's more about self defense and doing what's best for you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 08/04/17 12:00:32 AM #36:	I'm so fucking confused --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:884151657] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote>I'm so fucking confused</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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butthole666 08/04/17 12:11:31 AM #38:	shockthemonkey posted... butthole666 posted... I'm so fucking confused You feel it but you're not. You know why you feel how you do but you also know why avoiding her is for the best. Your emotions will feel misplaced but you know you're doing the right thing. I worked a shift with her the other day and it was like we were friends again abd it felt so good to be around her, but I could also tell she wanted me back, and recently I've picked up alternating attempts to flirt and to make me jealous or some shit. Like she was NOT satisfied with just friends. Also talking to new people has been fucking taxing and I made a separate topic about that. I'm fucked up right now. --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:884152189] in I miss my ... [t:75626001]...</cite> <quote><cite>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote><cite>butthole666 posted...</cite> <quote>I'm so fucking confused</quote> You feel it but you're not. You know why you feel how you do but you also know why avoiding her is for the best. Your emotions will feel misplaced but you know you're doing the right thing.</quote> I worked a shift with her the other day and it was like we were friends again abd it felt so good to be around her, but I could also tell she wanted me back, and recently I've picked up alternating attempts to flirt and to make me jealous or some shit. Like she was NOT satisfied with just friends. Also talking to new people has been fucking taxing and I made a separate topic about that. I'm fucked up right now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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