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DontHateMe
04/12/17 11:39:42 PM
#102:


Asherlee10 posted...
This is kind of a weird question, but has she ever openly been homophobic?


Not that I know of.
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DontHateMe
04/12/17 11:42:03 PM
#103:


KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Got any pics of this "girl" I'm starting to suspect she doesn't exist.


No, you're starting to sound like a creep now. I didn't realize this board had people such as yourself. What's the general age on this board? The immaturity kills me.
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KLouD_KoNNeCteD
04/12/17 11:50:43 PM
#104:


I figured she didn't exist, oh well.
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DontHateMe
04/12/17 11:55:51 PM
#105:


Don't hate. I don't even know you.
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TheGoldenEel
04/13/17 12:07:56 AM
#106:


dude you need to get out of this. this is not a healthy relationship

there is no trust or respect here. if i had to guess she's questioning the relationship too and is trying to flex power to "force" it to work.


how long you've been together means nothing if it's not working now. and it definitely isn't working. there will always be excuses to stay together, you live together, some life event is coming up, etc. etc. what you need to do is start taking the steps to improve your life and stop making excuses. clearly you have work on the horizon if you have this interview, it might suck to live with your parents for a bit but save up your money and move out as soon as you can

trust me, it's only going to get worse the longer you stick with this. i myself was in a relationship for 5 years, longer than we should have for sure, just out of complacency. make the change now, you will be happier for it long-term
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Banjo2553
04/13/17 2:01:01 AM
#107:


KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
I figured she didn't exist, oh well.

Dude, lay off. Your attempts at being an internet warrior are coming off as pretty sad. Who cares if TC made some other topic that you couldn't even provide proof he made? Except for you, obviously.
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KLouD_KoNNeCteD
04/13/17 2:08:18 AM
#108:


Banjo2553 posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
I figured she didn't exist, oh well.

Dude, lay off. Your attempts at being an internet warrior are coming off as pretty sad. Who cares if TC made some other topic that you couldn't even provide proof he made? Except for you, obviously.

You must be DontHateMe's main account lol.
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NinjaPirateDood
04/13/17 3:30:47 AM
#109:


KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Of course you have no idea what I'm talking about, here is a hint, I saw your little story on another board about how you set your friend up to get dumped by his girlfriend. Yeah I read the whole thing to, pretty scumbag thing to do. You wanna tell the story or should I??

Go On...
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Haldol
04/13/17 7:11:19 AM
#110:


DontHateMe posted...
Haldol posted...
Just because you've been with someone for years doesn't obligate you to hold on to anything. Unless you truly love and care about her, the time is meaningless

I have a girl I've been fucking for 5 years. I wouldn't hesitate to drop her at all if I needed to. You wasting 7 years of time just means that you shouldn't waste anymore unless you truly want to be with this woman. Just having a place to live isn't a good enough reason.


This is going to sound stupid, but I don't know what "love" is I guess. When it comes to these types of problems I question myself...do I REALLY need to be dealing with this? I feel myself caring less and less. When we're on good terms I think positive thoughts like she does a lot for me, she's been on my side this long, etc.

That sounds more like convenience to me than love.

Love is complicated, but in general it means that you care about someone so much that you commit to yourself to building a strong relationship with them. You are happy with them. Love is an action as well as a feeling. Even in tough times you still love that person.

To me, it sounds like all you care about with this woman is that she pays your bills gives you a roof over your head. You are simply using your 7 years together as an excuse to stay
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Banjo2553
04/13/17 1:55:48 PM
#111:


KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Banjo2553 posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
I figured she didn't exist, oh well.

Dude, lay off. Your attempts at being an internet warrior are coming off as pretty sad. Who cares if TC made some other topic that you couldn't even provide proof he made? Except for you, obviously.

You must be DontHateMe's main account lol.

Making assumptions about other people on top of that, nice. How's the weather up there on your high horse?
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DontHateMe
04/13/17 8:17:48 PM
#112:


Haldol posted...
DontHateMe posted...
Haldol posted...
Just because you've been with someone for years doesn't obligate you to hold on to anything. Unless you truly love and care about her, the time is meaningless

I have a girl I've been fucking for 5 years. I wouldn't hesitate to drop her at all if I needed to. You wasting 7 years of time just means that you shouldn't waste anymore unless you truly want to be with this woman. Just having a place to live isn't a good enough reason.


This is going to sound stupid, but I don't know what "love" is I guess. When it comes to these types of problems I question myself...do I REALLY need to be dealing with this? I feel myself caring less and less. When we're on good terms I think positive thoughts like she does a lot for me, she's been on my side this long, etc.

That sounds more like convenience to me than love.

Love is complicated, but in general it means that you care about someone so much that you commit to yourself to building a strong relationship with them. You are happy with them. Love is an action as well as a feeling. Even in tough times you still love that person.

To me, it sounds like all you care about with this woman is that she pays your bills gives you a roof over your head. You are simply using your 7 years together as an excuse to stay


She hasn't been paying bills or supplies a roof over my head. We've been splitting it since as long as I can remember. She WANTS to pay my bills and rent while I stay at home. Or rather she prefers doing that then me working at the job.
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DontHateMe
04/13/17 8:20:40 PM
#113:


Banjo2553 posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Banjo2553 posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
I figured she didn't exist, oh well.

Dude, lay off. Your attempts at being an internet warrior are coming off as pretty sad. Who cares if TC made some other topic that you couldn't even provide proof he made? Except for you, obviously.

You must be DontHateMe's main account lol.

Making assumptions about other people on top of that, nice. How's the weather up there on your high horse?


Exactly, lol. I haven't been here too long and haven't really made topics elsewhere. He likes creating assumptions and fits in his perfect little world.

Anyway, I went to the interview today and they loved me.
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Haldol
04/15/17 3:09:42 AM
#114:


DontHateMe posted...
Haldol posted...
DontHateMe posted...
Haldol posted...
Just because you've been with someone for years doesn't obligate you to hold on to anything. Unless you truly love and care about her, the time is meaningless

I have a girl I've been fucking for 5 years. I wouldn't hesitate to drop her at all if I needed to. You wasting 7 years of time just means that you shouldn't waste anymore unless you truly want to be with this woman. Just having a place to live isn't a good enough reason.


This is going to sound stupid, but I don't know what "love" is I guess. When it comes to these types of problems I question myself...do I REALLY need to be dealing with this? I feel myself caring less and less. When we're on good terms I think positive thoughts like she does a lot for me, she's been on my side this long, etc.

That sounds more like convenience to me than love.

Love is complicated, but in general it means that you care about someone so much that you commit to yourself to building a strong relationship with them. You are happy with them. Love is an action as well as a feeling. Even in tough times you still love that person.

To me, it sounds like all you care about with this woman is that she pays your bills gives you a roof over your head. You are simply using your 7 years together as an excuse to stay


She hasn't been paying bills or supplies a roof over my head. We've been splitting it since as long as I can remember. She WANTS to pay my bills and rent while I stay at home. Or rather she prefers doing that then me working at the job.

So where are you getting money from if she doesn't want you to get a job?

Also. Why is moving out not an option of you have money?

Why does she want you to stay home? Do you have kids?
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DontHateMe
04/15/17 2:28:05 PM
#115:


Haldol posted...
DontHateMe posted...
Haldol posted...
DontHateMe posted...
Haldol posted...
Just because you've been with someone for years doesn't obligate you to hold on to anything. Unless you truly love and care about her, the time is meaningless

I have a girl I've been fucking for 5 years. I wouldn't hesitate to drop her at all if I needed to. You wasting 7 years of time just means that you shouldn't waste anymore unless you truly want to be with this woman. Just having a place to live isn't a good enough reason.


This is going to sound stupid, but I don't know what "love" is I guess. When it comes to these types of problems I question myself...do I REALLY need to be dealing with this? I feel myself caring less and less. When we're on good terms I think positive thoughts like she does a lot for me, she's been on my side this long, etc.

That sounds more like convenience to me than love.

Love is complicated, but in general it means that you care about someone so much that you commit to yourself to building a strong relationship with them. You are happy with them. Love is an action as well as a feeling. Even in tough times you still love that person.

To me, it sounds like all you care about with this woman is that she pays your bills gives you a roof over your head. You are simply using your 7 years together as an excuse to stay


She hasn't been paying bills or supplies a roof over my head. We've been splitting it since as long as I can remember. She WANTS to pay my bills and rent while I stay at home. Or rather she prefers doing that then me working at the job.

So where are you getting money from if she doesn't want you to get a job?

Also. Why is moving out not an option of you have money?

Why does she want you to stay home? Do you have kids?


All those questions were answered.

I have a part time job. This job gives more hours and money. Why would I not want to upgrade?

Moving out IS an option. The only place as of now would be my parents, but I wanted to avoid that.

She doesn't want me to stay home exactly. She just doesn't want me taking this specific job because of her issues. No kids.
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Andrew21044
04/17/17 6:52:02 AM
#116:


I don't mean to come off as rude...but you being indifferent about it is also the problem.


You are allowing her to be this way kind of. Even if she was able to help you with a place to stay etc...don't let that be the reason you're still with her if it's bothering you so much. If you have to stay with your parents in order to teach her that you mean business....so be it.

You mentioned earlier in the topic that you'll be able to take care of bills and be able to save...why not do that for your parents or help your parents until you're ready to have your own place and not have to worry about being dependent on anyone but yourself?


Once again...I don't mean to be rude...but I'm just trying to help.
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pinky0926
04/17/17 7:01:29 AM
#117:


Regardless of whether you dump her or not you simply cant go through life not working or being around other women. so you go do that, don't let her push you around.
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MrDrMan
04/17/17 7:07:33 AM
#118:


Tell her to understand it's a job and keep it moving.
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MrDrMan
04/17/17 7:15:14 AM
#119:


Lightsasori posted...
Dump her, never go for the super jealous types.

DontHateMe posted...
Ulyanyx posted...
leave her tbh

if someone wants to hold you back because of a petty issue that they'd be jealous that you flirt, they arent worth your time.


I've been with her for too long for it to be over so quick. Ugh, I almost regret getting into a relationship. I see so many woman randomly throughout the day and it gets me thinking why am I doing this? Why am I stuck to one when I could be single and just date several?


Get out now man. I'm with a girl like this. Have been for like a year and a half. She seriously asks me something relating to other girls everyday. Infuriates me to no end. These women are nothing but headaches.

Once you're in it's hard to get out.
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StarReaper13
04/17/17 10:36:04 AM
#120:


KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Of course you have no idea what I'm talking about, here is a hint, I saw your little story on another board about how you set your friend up to get dumped by his girlfriend. Yeah I read the whole thing to, pretty scumbag thing to do. You wanna tell the story or should I??

Do you have screen caps?
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