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haloiscoolisbak posted...

Yeah if that happened that's very unprofessional. Different things make different people upset and a therapist of all people should know that

Yeah, I was seeing him for my social anxiety. Because I really struggle around people IRL. My first time meeting him he decided roleplay was the best action to take, then he got mad that I was reserved and not totally involved. I mean, I did my best, but he was a stranger and I was already uncomfortable and then he puts me on the spot to act out situations.

It wasn't until much later that the other stuff came up. But yeah, once he learned that I was a virgin he'd open every session after that with "get laid yet?" and he'd offer no help beyond "use tinder" which I was at the time.

Then he told me that my face was half the reason that I couldn't get laid. Told me that I'm no Grad Pitt and someone who looks like me obviously would struggle... Then he asked why I wanted to date, and I told him I wanted to become a father. He told me to give up on that because I'd be an awful father.

It's like he only listened enough to find out what bothered me, then attacked that every time. He made things so much worse.