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Arcanine2009 posted...

Sounds like it was after the weird girl. If I may ask, why didn't it work out with you and your fiance?

She was my girlfriend and wanted to be my fiance. I can say it was various things. Our hobbies didn't really align (this is a small issue), but we both wanted different things in life. She wasn't about the whole city life, with me wanting to work in Tokyo. She also wanted to settle down, preferably in London, which is something I didn't want.

She wanted to push for marriage and I wanted to wait till we got our stuff in order first. I know its vague, but we'd constantly have disagreements and misunderstandings, mostly coming out of our inability to just sit down and talk about it. I think its because of her upbringing (She's from Shiga near Kyoto) which is a really conservative closed off lifestyle. She also disliked a lot of things I liked, Japanese dramas, videogames, movie ect.

She even disliked the fact that I was into the idol group Sakurazaka46, even though she herself knew various idols and male idols. I guess there were different standards she had in her mind.

After that I could kinda feel us growing apart in the last year we were together. So in the back of my mind I kinda expected it, even though it still felt like I got stabbed in the heart.