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Crimsoness posted...

Just about having bpd and how it's affected me in the past. I figured it's best to just get it outta the way but it's not turning out well

Not a knock against you, but a lot of people consider it a major red flag. In recent years, BPD has flared up in relationship advice articles and social media, about how BPD can affect relationships, and has an association with cheating. One of those "not everyone who has it does x, but x is more prevalent among that group" sort of things.

But it's gotta be tough. There's a sweet spot of not being upfront, but not hiding it for too long. I would guess you should wait for the "Hey I like you a lot so you should know this" point, whenever that is.