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Sufferedphoenix posted...

Idk maybe a slow transition might not be as overwhelming for you. But I'm not you so idk.

But at some point it will just be oh they are doing this or that now. No big deal. Then they will start speculating and then by the time it'd all said and done nobody is surprised by this point.

I'm not really that bothered with a slow transition outside of home. Maybe I should have just not said anything and let them be surprised, but I told everyone and now I know my mom is extremely extremely opposed to the idea. So now I'm here worrying about how it's only a matter of time until hormones will make it impossible for me to put off discussing this further, and there's a big argument that probably makes me disown my family and struggle to find my own place. I'm not ready for that. I just want people to respect my identity and value my happiness.