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Do this:

You decide on a first name for a boy and a middle name for a girl. She decides on a first name for a girl and a middle name for a boy. Then when you find out, it's settled. This was what we did for our first.

It was way easier than with our second, when we didn't. There are just different schools of thought on how to name a child, and there's hardly any overlap between them. We did eventually settle on exactly one name between the dozens we each suggested, but man, it was a struggle.