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SecretBase posted...

A guy cannot complain about the lopsided expectations of modern dating or how poorly modern men are raised to adjust to them without being told it's somehow his fault, even though if he was a woman with the same personality and level of looks he'd be having none of the same problems. And the greater the silencing attempts the greater the aggression in response.

it's all in the phrasing. men have problems and they can be talked about. how you go about it matters, tho.

also if i steelman this argument, i still blame men. if a woman with a shit personality and puts forth no effort can still get dates etc etc, who's fault is that. it's like a shitty kid. you blame who raised them (usually, some people try and people still end up the way they do.)