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TopicWent out for drinks with my female co-worker. Now I regret everything.
Karovorak
02/26/24 3:33:32 AM
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If it's a one time thing because she had to vent everything out once, I would not mind it. Sometimes it's necessary, and I'm not better in that regard.

If it's happening every single time, that's more problematic. Some people simply are like that.

No matter what you do or say, it should always be about them and their problems.

That's already annoying in a one-to-one discussion, but it's even worse when it's in a group.

I mean, you can try to bait her. Get serious, and talk seriously about a serious problem of yours.

If she tries to help and listen to you, it's fine, if she goes like "I know, I actually have that problem too, with my mother, and it's even worse for me, because...." that's a red flag.

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