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EclairReturns posted...

I have a crush on this girl at work. I sort of wish I didn't, though. I had already accepted loneliness as my default mode of existence, and as such, had given up on trying to get myself to talk to her. This new bloke at work had already stricken up a conversation with her, and already the two are on speaking terms. She, unfortunately, already knows me as the weird bloke who gawks shamelessly at her whenever I pass her in the halls. I will not deny that I am jealous of the new bloke. I'm trying to get over her, but without much success. Sometimes, I wish that didn't have feelings when I pass her in the halls. They're just a bit much for me to deal with.

dude we all have feeling for people we like and crush. Im the most awkward person. It seems like no one will like you because either you think you arent cool or good looking enough. It happens. Just be yourself use that awkwardness to your advantage. Theres nothing wrong with it. I can only recommend small talk for now nothing too invasive and you can pick up on cues in the process. Worst case scenario there will be someone else you like even more that you have a stronger connection with. Alls I can say is dont be over barring if they arent ready for it. But that just means they arent ready for you and dammit you know you are awesome others will see it