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bsp77 posted...

The first woman I dated after my divorce most definitely came after me at a bar. Happened other times as well. And to most of my guy friends too at some point.

The exception isn't the rule. There are plenty and plenty and plenty of cases where men approach women at clubs, bars, on the internet, streets(for better and worse) and more. As men, we are taught to approach. Waiting doesn't work because our looks aren't as valued compared to a woman. A hot woman will get far more attention compared to any hot guy, and this is shown even on online dating where women, even average looking ones, will get far more matches

I can't go to a bar, sit down and wait for some rando woman to "approach me" and think that works. I do however, have a higher chance of getting a date(or potentially getting laid) if I take initiative, approach, and introduce myself. Women get tons of men hitting them up or cat calling them. As a result, their standards will be higher and thus get to a position where they don't have to approach men. meanwhile men have to approach women