Unironically this tbh. Smartest thing I ever did was learn how to be happy being alone and actually living for myself.
I guess it helps that I learned at a fairly young age (high school age) that I just wasnt made for dating so now in my mid-30s, its just been how my life is.
Ive tried, for sure, but any girl that I dated dropped me after a couple of weeks or months (maximum). Or any girl I felt like I was vibing with would literally just stop talking to me without notice. Ive never had any of those moments where friends would be like oh yeah btw this girl likes / liked you.
My friends have told me plenty of stories about how theyd recommend me to any of their female friends who were looking to date someone and the girls reactions would be making a disgusted face.
Soooo yeah some people just arent made for romantic relationships. I know its nEvEr ToO LaTe but at this point I really cant picture any woman having the patience to deal with some dude in his mid-30s like me who has the dating experience of a middle schooler