LogFAQs > #972835046

Do not listen to doomers or people spouting incel adjacent rhetoric. Success is possible, even though the numbers are certainly skewed. No one is putting their pay on these apps, so that's not actually an issue. I've found that often times, people don't even notice my job. It's a visuals, vibes, and humor driven arena. That's what you need to focus on. If you haven't taken 5-7 high quality, good variety pics, imagined how your profile comes off from a woman's (presumably) perspective, and worked on your canned and tailored opener skills, you're not giving yourself the best chance.

You can stand out by not being a horndog with some people and by being a respectful and funny horndog with others. You also need to remember that people not responding is not a judgment on you all the time, other people are living complete and busy lives and don't always have time to respond to each stranger that reaches out to them. They might also be looking for something different at that time. It's kind of a crapshoot out there. All you can do is put your best foot forward and avoid getting jaded like the plague because that attitude seeps out and it doesn't help.