LogFAQs > #972832660

It's not so much defeatist as it is realist.

Believe me I know the reality of using dating apps, I used them for a decade on and off. You can't just "Plus Ultra" your way through a dating app. I did stuff like weekly workouts, dieting, updating my wardrobe, accessorizing, improving my image by dying my hair/ getting it cut and watching videos on social/dating etiquette. I did everything to become a better bachelor.

I had a handful of success, but the amount I had to lower my standards to was astounding where I would still end up going out with girls who were 25-80lbs heavier than me, and even those were hard to come by, kind of like winning the lottery.

So then I see guys who are trying to vent about their difficulty using dating apps and then come the inevitable comments that always seem to blame them even if there isn't a lot of information presented.

If he's discouraged from using dating apps that's not all that bad he'll probably have better success at a bar or a social event.

But even if dating apps suck for men, you're right self-improvement should always be strove for no matter what the walk of life is.