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NoxObscuras posted...

For me, when I hear "rape fantasy," I think of specific scenarios being acted out, not just sex where the guy is being dominant. For instance in crime shows like Law and Order, where the guy has to rip her clothes off and force her legs open while she's kicking and screaming. That's what I picture as "rape fantasy." Which is why I think it's creepy to play out a scenario like that.

That's definitely not what women are picturing (I mean, the vast majority of women aren't, there's always going to be outliers). The key word here is 'fantasy,' and the Law and Order-type scenario is definitely closer to grim reality.

Just to be clear, not trying to pick apart your post, just trying to drive home how wildly inaccurate and counter-intuitive the term 'rape fantasy' is; it's perfectly reasonable for you to assume such based on the term alone.