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bsp77 posted...

I won't say the "youngest women they can legally say they're attracted to". However, I have had to think about why I was mostly pursuing women 5 to 15 years younger than me after my divorce. I was 40yo and had been with my ex since I was 19 (and never dated prior). I felt like I missed out on my 20s and 30s, plus most people my age seemed boring af to me. Basically, I was immature and fucked up.

So I do think it is fair to question why someone keeps pursuing people who are younger. I wasn't being malicious or anything, but I also wasn't in a healthy place.

The funny thing is that once I started being better from a mental standpoint, I starting dating my now fiance who is over 15 years younger. But the fact that she was younger was an ironic coincidence.

That might have been TMI...

It's not TMI, but it's a retreading of what has already been discussed lol. I have absolutely no qualms with your journey. And if I met someone with your age gap at a party, I wouldn't immediately assume the worst of them or really anything. Id talk to them if it organically happened and if things felt off, Id start feeling weird. Like, if he started talking like Andrew Tate lol.

Actually. You're with a 30 year old. So, Id just think it's sad she got that old without ever understanding her worth.