LogFAQs > #965986432

I typically describe myself as gay since that seems easiest. I have at certain times in my life considered myself a homoromantic asexual and lean more toward the idea of gray-/demisexuality these days. But, for 90% of people, it's easier to just say I'm gay and that mostly gets the point across. The gray/demi label is mainly helpful when actually seeking partners, since it essentially amounts to a preemptive setting of expectations.

Of course, there's the added confusion of how these terms work as a non-binary person, but I've long accepted I am man-shaped and figure 'gay' is the easiest label.