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I know this is a joke but.. Over the last year, I've gone out with four women on 1st dates that there was no sex, and it fizzled out from a little bit of texting afterward and we never went on a 2nd date..

Then I hear about my friends who are sleeping on the first date and it makes me wonder if this is really the expectation now? Does the girl think you're weak or not a man because you didn't make the first move and show her you like her? I thought a girl wouldnt wanna be with you because it's disrespectful to move that quick so it might turn them off. Maybe it's the opposite, they think you wasted their time because they got none that night and they think you don't like them.. Stupid.

1 girl I did sleep with the first date and we were together for a while. She never wanted to leave me. So what the hell is going on.. I broke us off later because she had an addiction to marijuana and it became unattractive for me.

It actually really bothers me because one of the girls (1 of 4 that a 2nd date never happened) I went on a date on, I had a massive crush on her. I dropped her off home after a fancy date, and when i was driving off she texted me: "I wish i invited you to meet my doggie". She was implying she wanted to ask me to go back in her apartment with her, but she didn't ask me because she was probably scared and maybe there was an expectation that I shouldve done it? But how do you do that without coming off like a creep? "Hey I'm dropping you off from our date, do you mind if I go in your home?" What the fuck.. Her interest seemed to fade because we didnt hang out the day after or go to her apartment after the 1st date. It's like you have to lock them in by showing them physically you do like them or some shit. It's weird and I've noticed all my friends who slept on the 1st date are still with those women. The one that doesn't, it usually doesn't go anywhere. The world is backwards.