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NoxObscuras posted...

Because it's a well known thing in the US that guys fetishize the hell out of Asian women. It's not about her culture, her hobbies/interests, or her personality.

Tons of people are called weebs because they love Japanese culture to the point where they're infactuated with it. So I believe there are a lot of of guys who also take that into account.

NoxObscuras posted...

It's only about her being Asian. It's saying, I don't like you, I like the ideal you represent, so any Asian will do. That's why it's creepy. Because it's not about her as a person.

Isn't this assuming a lot of someone? How would you know if, for example, I liked an Asian girl for only that reason? And isn't it looks that is the first and foremost thing that people take note of when it comes to attraction? No matter what others say, sexual attraction usually starts with what someone looks like. Asian features are usually very attractive to most people.

And the whole "any asian will do", could you show me examples of this? I'm not trying to prove you wrong or anything, but I legit don't know where people get this. Just because a guy looks at a lot of Asian girls doesn't mean he should be vilified for it. It's just his preference.

NoxObscuras posted...

That's why it's creepy. Because it's not about her as a person.

You can apply this sentence to literally anything. Guys go after girls with big butts or boobs. There are tons of topics on CE celebrating those. Is it objectifying? Maybe. I don't know, but that's what guys like. Just like women who go after tall men, or bulky men, or men with metrosexual features. Again, its not about them as a person, but their looks. Something that draws the opposite sex because of, again, their prefences in another person. That could also be applied to race. Black girls are attractive to some. Latinas, Indians, Brazillians, Europeans, I could go on.

NoxObscuras posted...

So, I guarantee if you saw a cute Asian woman and you approached her by saying "I love Asian women" she would be put off. Because guys do that to them a lot

I've seen this happen when I was at uni with almost ANY race. We used to talk about this in front of girls too, and the girls were INVOLVED in the conversation. Fuck, one of my female friends told me she loves Mongolian men a few weeks ago.

So again, why is this only bad when it comes to Asians?