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UnMead posted...

there are plenty of women that leave a relationship but the guy is co-dependent and refuses to accept reality

all Im saying is that we dont know the context and shouldnt rush to judgement without it. For all we know she broke up with the guy months ago or only went on a couple dates with him. We dont know.

IF they were already broken up and he kept pursuing her, then sure.
But from the context I do have, she apparently told him, "we'll talk about it later."
That doesn't sound like what the victim of a stalking EX-boyfriend would say. Sounds much more like a current GF that was caught cheating.
And again, my response was to the comment, which pretty much condoned cheating.

the dude in the video stalked her there, screamed at her publicly, and started grabbing and throwing things inside the vehicle. I shudder to think what he would have done if they werent in a semi-public area.

The whole dynamic reeks of unhealthy codependency and if she has been suffering in an unloving relationship and cant seem to get out of it then I say good for her for getting some good dick for herself and having the courageous audacity to finish enjoying it.

OR... he suspected it and wasn't sure (hoping it's not true), followed her to verify and caught his girlfriend cheating, and in the moment got very uncharacteristically angry and emotional about the betrayal. He could've been perfectly composed and chill day to day before this.
We just don't know.

And your last sentence is just creepy. If you've got some sort of fetish, keep it to yourself. Banging someone isn't "courageous". Cripes...