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streamofthesky posted...

Ok, I don't know what video or pic that is and the context of it. But that comment is so fucking wrong...

Cheating is never justified, and being "unhappy" in a relationship certainly doesn't justify it. If you're not happy, then fucking leave! People cheat b/c they're selfish and want the security of the relationship and the thrill of the side fling, or they intentionally hold onto the relationship until they're reasonably sure their new partner is willing to commit to them ("monkey branching").
That comment is straight up victim-blaming and toxic as fuck. Way too many victims of cheating do get gaslit into believing it's their fault, and it's really disgusting.

there are plenty of women that leave a relationship but the guy is co-dependent and refuses to accept reality

all Im saying is that we dont know the context and shouldnt rush to judgement without it. For all we know she broke up with the guy months ago or only went on a couple dates with him. We dont know.

the dude in the video stalked her there, screamed at her publicly, and started grabbing and throwing things inside the vehicle. I shudder to think what he would have done if they werent in a semi-public area.

The whole dynamic reeks of unhealthy codependency and if she has been suffering in an unloving relationship and cant seem to get out of it then I say good for her for getting some good dick for herself and having the courageous audacity to finish enjoying it.