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XIII_rocks posted...

I was gonna say something similar

Topic title gave me pause because it's already phrased like using "they/them" was some stretch or hardship or like a gift that trans people should be grateful for

This is an interesting observation.

I suppose I view it like learning someones name which I view as an effort that shows appreciation. If someones pronouns dont match their heuristics then its like having to learn someones name twice.

I suppose if you didnt think having to learn someones name was a struggle it wouldnt be an issue, but Ive always struggled with names so in a way it does feel like something they should be grateful for