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| Topic | Why are so many women so slow to respond to texts? |
| LeetCheet 10/10/21 4:43:54 PM #28: | There is always someone who brings up that word in my topics. Also it literally only takes seconds for a proper response that I'm looking for. A Yes or a no. A word that has three or less letters shouldn't be too much to ask for. My ex did the same thing to me when we were together. A couple of hours just to get an "OK" as a response. As annoying as it was to always get an ok back for almost any text I sent her, at least she eventually responded to me. It's apparently too much to ask for to just be treated as a friend. And this woman from work, she's very nice towards me but she has too much emotional baggage, I do not even want to be together with her(she has said it herself that we're just friendly colleagues). I'm so lonely and I'm desperate to have more friends in my life. Even troubled ones that has their own issues. I was kinda hoping that we could support each other with our own troubled lives. I want friends but I'm not demanding people to be my friends. And someone just wanting friends and be treated like one shouldn't be called an incel. "Oh a guy said something about a woman that wasn't positive? He must be an incel and hate women." Just because I find some of the women I've met in my life tend to do, in my opinion, questionable things, that doesn't mean I hate women. I mean, I've said and done some questionable things too. Like the first girl I've ever tried to get to know better, apparently I was being an asshole for hoping that she treats her future children well and not knowing that she was incapable of having children beforehand. I mean, I know that could be a sensitive subject but how the fuck am I supposed to know that beforehand when we had barely even gotten to know each other? So after that catastrophe I learned that it's easiest to just shut the hell up and never say anything to anyone IRL unless someone speaks with you first. The side effect of that is all my thoughts and things I want to say are constantly taking up more space on my mind and it gets harder for me to focus on other stuff. It's not healthy to bottle up everything for longer periods of time. But that's what I learn from people every time I try to talk with them. I learn that I shouldn't ever complain because when I do, people start to resent me. Most humans need social interaction with other humans and even if I'm not a very sociable guy that doesn't mean I don't want to be around other people. I just want to tell someone about my day. Like if something funny happened at work one day or at the store or whatever. I want to tell those things to someone but there aren't anyone around that can listen. This post went on for too long. Whatever, I don't really expect anyone to read my stupid posts anyway. --- ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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