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| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| streamofthesky 08/31/21 1:40:25 AM #12: | There's being respectful and being a doormat. Six years is insane, it wasn't even like you two were "saving it for marriage" since you say it wasn't her first time and you didn't wait till marriage... Were you providing her a place to live or financially supporting her during any of those six years? Sounds like she was just using you... You need to start having some standards and not be afraid to value your own needs. If she wasn't willing to sleep w/ you after a while, there's nothing wrong w/ ending things and walking away. You have needs, too. Also, I'm not sure why you said your "nice" co-workers "did this for me". Did what? Spread embarrassing gossip about your sex life? A lot of women might act disgusting that a nice guy like you could be treated like that. Even wish they could "find a guy like you". But yet....they never just date you. Has to be someone like you, but not you. Almost like it's empty words. Just value your time and attention more going forward. LeetCheet posted... No she has had sex with others before me. She's just really awkward in bed. And, assuming this wasn't just an excuse to string you along, I'll never understand that kind of reasoning. Ditto for women looking for a long term relationship and want a guy who's experienced. Like...you're going to be together for the long term. You'll have lots of practice. :) Just have some patience and learn together... ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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