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Returning_CEmen posted...

You both sound like shitty people.

Nah.. I just let this woman walk all over me from the time I met her in 2018.

Back then I was like 140 pounds and I was a total yes man Kiss her ass, do everything she tells me to do, buy her food and drive her around and shit and maybe I would get a hand job or she would sit on my face if I asked.

We broke up in 2019 but weve been hooking up here and there since She has a boyfriend / husband but literally has no problem sleeping with other men.

Now Im changing my personality, Im up to about 170 pounds since Ive been going to the gym daily since February and increasing my calories by a lot Ive watched a bunch of videos on dating strategies on YouTube and discovered I was making a lot of beta male mistakes and having a victim mindset so Im starting to learn that the best way to deal with her to be myself unapologetically and not worry about hurting her feelings and also starving her of my attention and time.

Even yesterday I realized that I made a ton of mistakes interacting with her I shouldnt have apologized to her about the mean comments I made What I should have done was continue to hold strong on what I said instead of asking her to forgive me because what she did really did was disrespectful and masculine men do not allow themselves to be disrespected without consequences.

Honestly Im done at this point A lot of the online dating experts said that the most repulsive thing to a woman is a needy, weak emotional man So Im gonna try my best to forget her and act like I dont need her in my life anymore because I dont She only seems to make my life worse every time we see each other.