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| Topic | How often do people in the talking stage actually "talk" for |
| philsov 05/13/21 2:57:58 PM #10: | DeroIin posted... I mean weve already met up 3 times since our first date on 4/30 lol thought I shouldve mentioned that. But I still consider this the talking stage cause Ive been here a gazillion times but never in an actual relationship and idk what other label apples. As I reads it, y'all are literally dating. Not boyfriend/girlfriend, nor exclusive relationship. The latter only happens after a proposal and agreement. Sure, one day she might just start calling you "her boyfriend" but it's good to be on the same page about what the role entails and the responsibilities therein like hanging out with family (or meeting them in general) or discussions about exclusivity and making sure neither one of you are also dating anyone else. As for when to have "the talk" -- there is no set guideline. For me it's about a month net because by then I know I want to keep this person in my life (or realize we don't click suffuciently, and also act accordingly instead of dragging it out). For some people this is <2 weeks, and for others it's >2 months. If she's unsure about being yo' GF, while you are sure, that's fine for now, and y'all can keep doing what y'all are doing. If she's still unsure after 3+ months, whelp... --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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