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Topic	Being Socially Inept fucking SUCKS.
LeetCheet 01/15/21 4:37:54 PM #4:	GunslingerGunsl posted... I find that we are sometimes harder on ourselves than other people are on us. I don't always like the way that I stumble over my words because I want to be seen as someone who is well spoken. Despite what I've thought about myself, other people have told me that they don't even notice those things that bother me about myself. Try not to worry about how you come off to others. You're not going to get to where you want to be without practice and you're never going to get there if you don't give yourself a chance to even try. Don't let your fear of failure become a self-fulfilling prophecy! You can do it! And if anyone gives you shit about this then they weren't worthy of your time anyway! Yeah I probably am too harsh on myself but that's what happens when you're suffering from depression. You start noticing all the bad things about yourself and begin to resent them. I mean, I've noticed a lot of things from my coworkers by just observing them and listen when they talk with each other. Some of them often repeat specific words when they talk, some always talk about the weather every morning, one guy always takes a cup of coffee from the coffeemachine at a specific time every day, etc. It would've annoyed me so much if I noticed that I overused certain words. I feel like I want to explain about my disorder(Aspergers) so other people know why I behave like I do. Just take this situation for example: I talk with one of my coworkers. And then another coworker joins our conversation. Ok it is going to take more effort for me to continue the conversation but I can handle it. Oh, now there's like five people in our conversation and I haven't said anything for a while. Well, I guess I might as well go away and do something else instead of just quietly standing there like a fool. Hopefully no one thought I walked away because I got upset or something. thedeerzord posted... Just get over it and focus on doing what you love most. Talking itself will eventually come naturally to you if you interact with people of the same interest as you. There is one coworker that I often work with that likes videogames but I don't want to be clingy so I try to not bother him too much. Yeah I know that seems kinda counterproductive when I'm longing to create bonds with my coworkers but that's my brain's logic and it only makes sense to me. --- https://imgur.com/eQrRxik https://imgur.com/NC8itow <cite>LeetCheet posted [p:949539239] in Being Soci... [t:79240583]...</cite> <quote>GunslingerGunsl posted...</cite> <quote>I find that we are sometimes harder on ourselves than other people are on us. I don't always like the way that I stumble over my words because I want to be seen as someone who is well spoken. Despite what I've thought about myself, other people have told me that they don't even notice those things that bother me about myself. Try not to worry about how you come off to others. You're not going to get to where you want to be without practice and you're never going to get there if you don't give yourself a chance to even try. Don't let your fear of failure become a self-fulfilling prophecy! You can do it! And if anyone gives you shit about this then they weren't worthy of your time anyway!</quote> Yeah I probably am too harsh on myself but that's what happens when you're suffering from depression. You start noticing all the bad things about yourself and begin to resent them. I mean, I've noticed a lot of things from my coworkers by just observing them and listen when they talk with each other. Some of them often repeat specific words when they talk, some always talk about the weather every morning, one guy always takes a cup of coffee from the coffeemachine at a specific time every day, etc. It would've annoyed me so much if I noticed that I overused certain words. I feel like I want to explain about my disorder(Aspergers) so other people know why I behave like I do. Just take this situation for example: I talk with one of my coworkers. And then another coworker joins our conversation. Ok it is going to take more effort for me to continue the conversation but I can handle it. Oh, now there's like five people in our conversation and I haven't said anything for a while. Well, I guess I might as well go away and do something else instead of just quietly standing there like a fool. Hopefully no one thought I walked away because I got upset or something. thedeerzord posted...</cite> <quote>Just get over it and focus on doing what you love most. Talking itself will eventually come naturally to you if you interact with people of the same interest as you.</quote> There is one coworker that I often work with that likes videogames but I don't want to be clingy so I try to not bother him too much. Yeah I know that seems kinda counterproductive when I'm longing to create bonds with my coworkers but that's my brain's logic and it only makes sense to me. --- https://imgur.com/eQrRxik https://imgur.com/NC8itow</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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