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Topic	Youths attack man who challenged them for not wearing masks
Flappers 11/20/20 12:49:04 AM #50:	wwinterj25 posted... Yes. That's what he did by sticking his nose in. The situation was between the youths and the conductor. So if I say to a shirtless person on a cold winter day "Wow, don't you want to wear a jacket?" I deserve to be followed, attacked, and get my bag stolen? Then I can't be upset about it because I was sticking my nose where it doesn't belong and "inviting" that kind of criminal behavior? You may not have actually said that you condone violence but you just have to hear yourself, man, and realize that maybe this isn't the most tactful response to things... I get what you're saying on some level about the guy being nosey but you don't seem to understand that it isn't his fault he got hurt by some very hot-headed and immature people. Victim blaming is the perfect term for this. I don't think you realize it but that's what you're doing. Maybe what you're saying just came off wrong and now you have to defend yourself and try to explain it. I've been there too. But when ever after that everybody else jumps in and tells me I'm in the wrong I have to realize that they may be right if it's that unanimous and give in even though I might still feel like I'm right. I'm not telling you to apologize or anything, it doesn't matter enough to get into a huge argument over. I think we just kinda want you to understand that what you're saying isn't really that fair. --- Trading info: https://tinyurl.com/yy5l25ap \| Gen 8 (WIP): https://tinyurl.com/thlpd4y 3DS FC: 3239-5835-8457 \| IGNs: see links for a complete list <cite>Flappers posted [p:947387276] in Youths att... [t:79122683]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted... </cite> <quote>Yes. That's what he did by sticking his nose in. The situation was between the youths and the conductor.</quote>So if I say to a shirtless person on a cold winter day "Wow, don't you want to wear a jacket?" I deserve to be followed, attacked, and get my bag stolen? Then I can't be upset about it because I was sticking my nose where it doesn't belong and "inviting" that kind of criminal behavior? You may not have actually said that you condone violence but you just have to hear yourself, man, and realize that maybe this isn't the most tactful response to things... I get what you're saying on some level about the guy being nosey but you don't seem to understand that it isn't his fault he got hurt by some very hot-headed and immature people. Victim blaming is the perfect term for this. I don't think you realize it but that's what you're doing. Maybe what you're saying just came off wrong and now you have to defend yourself and try to explain it. I've been there too. But when ever after that everybody else jumps in and tells me I'm in the wrong I have to realize that they may be right if it's that unanimous and give in even though I might still feel like I'm right. I'm not telling you to apologize or anything, it doesn't matter enough to get into a huge argument over. I think we just kinda want you to understand that what you're saying isn't really that fair. --- Trading info: https://tinyurl.com/yy5l25ap \| Gen 8 (WIP): https://tinyurl.com/thlpd4y 3DS FC: 3239-5835-8457 \| IGNs: see links for a complete list</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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