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| Funkydog 10/02/20 4:13:40 PM #145: | Lost_All_Senses posted... Alright. I took a shower and didn't expect to have to answer to 2 different people when I got out lol. So Im just gonna go with the one talking about having more experience, rather than the one dismissing all experience as meaningless.It's not "dismissing" it, but far too often parents will go "well I've RAISED children" in response to any criticism, like it has any actual meaning. Yes, raising children isn't easy, but doesn't mean just because you've done it you've done it well. Are we going to take the advice of all the shitty parents, just because they've raised a child? I think we'd all agree it'd be absurd to take the advice of a negligent parent, for example. Can you raise a children with the occasional smack? Obviously, given 99% of the current population has been raised that way. But it doesn't mean we need to keep doing it, when studies show it has very little positive outcome. When it doesn't actually have a beneficial effect, and does worse at teaching children over other methods, why carry on with it? Sure, it works, but not well. --- ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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