From what I have realized about women, if they're in a relationship that matters to them they will let you know within just a few minutes of having a casual conversation with them.
If you have legit talked to her about what the f*** ever, and she hasn't mentioned a boyfriend/husband to you at all, then you're probably good to go. But you should still maybe, like, try to talk to her a bit more I guess?
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