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You literally said you were only having it because her parents already paid and you felt obligated to make sure their money was well spent.

That is NOT what I said. And it doesn't even make the slightest amount of common sense. Why would we have set it all up in the first place and asked her parents to pay for it if we didn't want it?

The point was that given everything that had happened, including the constant stress and uncertainty of having to go through months of not knowing if it would be cancelled or not, then officially having it cancelled by government order, we were ready to just be done with it and go elope, but reconsidered because we wanted to be good stewards of her parents financial resources.

That's not the same thing as saying we "never wanted it." We absolutely wanted it. It was going to be great. All of my family was going to come in from out of state. That's all gone now. What we will now have in exchange will be a pale imitation of what was originally all planned. If that. It seems somewhat likely that Abbott is going to put his pussy-hat on and order a brand new shutdown any day now. So our second rescheduled date might get cancelled again. In which case the few guests and wedding party members who have stuck with us will probably cancel out as well and we'll be left with our parents standing in our kitchen. But I guess I'm a horrible person for being upset about that huh? I guess if that happened to you, you'd just smile and nod and say "WELL IF IT SAVES JUST ONE LIFE" right?

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