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Topic	My friend wants a long term relationship, but I'm not interested. Advice?
Seitar 01/19/20 7:39:00 PM #19:	Questionmarktarius posted... Don't. Be direct and blunt about it. "Ain't gonna happen. Look elsewhere." If you want to be "nice" about it, set him up with a friend who's roughly as desperate and clingy. Yeah, with a guy like that you need to be totally clear, direct and blunt. If you let him down easy he will twist and mangle those words into something that fits his agenda. Sure if you let him down easy he might back of for a month or two but then he will be back to his old ways again and eventually it will turn into toxic bitterness which will hurt both of you more than the alternative. --- PSN: Seitar-Hubbe <cite>Seitar posted [p:933194051] in My friend ... [t:78343581]...</cite> <quote>Questionmarktarius posted... </cite> <quote>Don't. Be direct and blunt about it. "Ain't gonna happen. Look elsewhere." If you want to be "nice" about it, set him up with a friend who's roughly as desperate and clingy.</quote>Yeah, with a guy like that you need to be totally clear, direct and blunt. If you let him down easy he will twist and mangle those words into something that fits his agenda. Sure if you let him down easy he might back of for a month or two but then he will be back to his old ways again and eventually it will turn into toxic bitterness which will hurt both of you more than the alternative. --- PSN: Seitar-Hubbe</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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