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| Topic | My friend wants a long term relationship, but I'm not interested. Advice? |
| NonDairyMiltank 01/19/20 9:29:35 AM #13: | LumaRosalina posted... I'm not interested in him, but he's a great friend and I want to continue to talk to him without worrying about him taking it the wrong way and thinking we're gonna have a relationship.nope can't have both with someone whos made it clear they want more than that abort he got feels and will be bitter af about being "friendzoned" later no matter what you do, he'll say you strung him along by not shutting him down hes not gonna get what he really wants out of the friendship, so youre setting each other up for drama later if you let it roll that ain't how it should be, but thats how it is drop that friends-only card on him if you want to and see where it goes but dont let things get outta hand just to spare each other's feelings, he'll be upset with you bein fake like that anyway i tell the same thing to guys who have a clingy girl friend who keeps seeing wedding rings and wont dial it down youre not a villain for sayin no thanks and walkin when they keep begging for a date that you don't want youre a villain if you stick around just to let them believe they got a chance of dating you in the future, thats bein fake... --- Moo. #Listen&Investigate ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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