The way people bend over backwards to justify why they don't give to charities and why charity is evil in insane ways just so they don't feel like jerks has always been puzzling to me.
It's charity, you don't have to do it, that's the entire point.
But pretending Charity is anything other than amazing just because you're too lazy to help others is madness.
There was just a huge Earthquake in Albania, many have died, thousands have lost their homes and all their poesssions.
I'm not a rich man but I helped pay for dozens of homeless people there to live in a hotel (that is overpacked for the record) until the crisis is over.
Israel is sending aid, the US is sending help, UAE is airlifting supplies, the EU is sending support and doctors.
you look at that and go "Oh this is evil, we should all just leave them to die and suffer because other causes exist too and it's a whim" WTF?
What ass backwards logic is that.
those are not the grounds on which people generally object to private charities. read the first post