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| Topic | How many gay men do we have on B8? |
| PerfectChaosZ 09/25/19 9:24:22 PM #31: | If you think about getting with the same sex in a sexy way you arent curious and you definitely arent straight. Straight folks never think about it, really, thats not like an insult somehow or anything they really dont even consider it unless its mentioned to them and they are flabbergasted when reminded. If you think of it on your own or it turns you on you are attracted to dudes even a bit. So youre pan for sure. People tend to get emotional over the debate between bi and pan but I just feel that pan is a more inclusive and better term while bisexual is more archaic from a time when we didnt understand gender an sexuality as much. But its also so marginalized and erased that I understand why folks cling so hard to their bi identity and saying pan is largely the same kinda feels like more erasure. So I dont begrudge people that still like to use bi whatsoever. Oh and if you ever think about being the opposite sex same goes for you, you arent cis. I promise you a cis person never thinks about it. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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