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TopicWomen feel gross when men who they aren't attracted to are attracted to them
LenKagamine91
09/21/19 3:07:33 PM
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Imo why women feel offended when men they don't find attractive show attraction towards them is because they think "wow only unattractive guys show interest in me, is this what I deserve?" It's like if only fat chicks showed interest in you. You'd be offended too.

Fuckin lol. Copypasta'd from a certain website. Here are quotes from them.

GabrielleApril 8, 2015 at 8:59 AM

I'm uncomfortable with the sexuality of men that I'm not attracted to. I experience a strong visceral rejection response whenever men who aren't attractive to me express any sort of attraction towards me. This could even be a good friend that I would have no problems hugging or being in close contact with regularly. The moment I realize his attraction, and I'm not attracted to him, I feel gross, even if he hasn't done anything. I think that's where the idea of "creep" comes from. We associate that nasty feeling with its source, and therefore, probably unfairly label a lot of men who might not have done anything socially unacceptable. It's probably something we got from our ancestors, to instinctively escape from undesirable males who want to mate with us since the chances of being raped in that situation were far higher during caveman times.

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AndrewApril 8, 2015 at 10:57 AM
Interesting.

AnonymousApril 8, 2015 at 5:02 PM
Gabrielle, I relate to this so much as well! I actually feel insulted when a man I am not physically attracted to shows interest in me. To be honest, I find it revolting. This really stuck out to me: "The moment I realize his attraction, and I'm not attracted to him, I feel gross, even if he hasn't done anything."

AnonymousApril 9, 2015 at 12:05 PM
Same here girl. I even find it offensive honestly. Maybe I'm just a bitch haha

AnonymousApril 12, 2015 at 5:21 AM
I second (or fourth) you, Gabrielle! Your first two sentences have stuck me on point. I am very happy with my body and familiar with male sexuality. But whenever I spot a man who does not interest me in the least and he is checking me out, I walk past faster, look away and depending on how uninterested I am I may even make it clear through eye contact.

AnonymousMay 13, 2015 at 2:00 AM
I hope you all realise that the problem in this case is you, not the man.

meganJuly 17, 2015 at 9:37 AM
I fifth this. I have a friend who always gets a little too grabby after a couple drinks and it makes my skin crawl just thinking about it. I also took a human resources class recently and when the instructor asked what defines sexual harrassment, the (off the record) "answer" was the degree of attraction the victim has towards the offender. Its so true when you think about it! A guy at work we think is attractive can certainly get away with a suggestive comment more easily than someone we don't!

MALSeptember 8, 2019 at 8:08 PM
Damn, reading these comments is enough to turn any man into a misogynist, i really hope you all get cheated on or die alone.
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