LogFAQs > #924949273

LurkerFAQs, Active DB, DB1, DB2, DB3, DB4, Database 5 ( 01.01.2019-12.31.2019 ), DB6, DB7, DB8, DB9, DB10, DB11, DB12, Clear

Topic List	Page List: 1
Topic	Do you guys think using "implications" to get sex is rape?
LinkPizza 07/20/19 3:36:23 PM #123:	Lirishae posted... LinkPizza posted... I dont think asking someone for sex out of the blue is creepy. Though, I guess it depends on what out of the blue means. Many dating sites will tell you that getting too sexual too fast or without first ascertaining she's interested creeps most women out. https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/ways-men-creep-women-out.html https://www.doctornerdlove.com/the-science-of-being-creepy/ https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-some-guys-creep-women-out-and-how-easily-avoid Idk enough about asking women for sex. But I do know many friends who hook-up with different of both genders who hook-up frequently. Thats why it depends on what you mean by out of the blue. But I have known many people who do just ask if someone wants to hook-up. Though, its probably more normal in the hook-up culture. And not as weird there... Lirishae posted... LinkPizza posted... And I dont think most women plan their lives around being assault, raped, etc... And that honestly sounds ridiculous. That's not what I said. They plan their lives to minimize the risk of being assaulted, raped, etc. Women face the threat of violence just minding their own business and trying to go about their daily lives. Yes, men face violence as well, but generally not sexual violence, and their risk of being killed comes from much different sources. As I posted before, the FBI stated that most male homicides occur from arguments over status. The majority of female homicides, on the other hand, stem from men killing their romantic partners. The idea of getting into an argument does not significantly change most men's behavior. The threat of violence however causes many women to change their routines, often in ways they don't consciously consider. https://www.salon.com/2013/08/12/five_ways_that_staying_safe_costs_women/ Thats the thing. I dont think they do anything significantly different than men. As the other poster said, its more of a human thing to avoid certain situations more than a women thing. Like its not just women who shouldnt run errands alone at night. No one should. Sure. Women might try to avoid certain situations that are bad for them. But so do men... Lirishae posted... LinkPizza posted... And makes me think you either havent interacted with many women, have seriously misread them, and have only interacted with woman of a specific group or area (i.e. victims or people who live in a bad area). Nope. As gently as I can say this, you don't seem to know a lot about violence and abuse against women. I've been posting a lot of facts and links, while your argument boils down to calling this ridiculous based on nothing more than your own personal experience. If you research what experts are saying about violence against women, you'll generally find the same information I've posted. And as we stated before, most of those are educated guesses. With any crime/statistic, youll usually dont have 100% accuracy. But its even worse with statistic of sexual assault, or even just violence. As many dont report things out of embarrassment. But even with normal violence, like a fight, it may not get reported. Because of either embarrassment, or because they dont think its a big deal. So, it hard to believe random stats, especially when they can contradict other stats. So, the stat on violence against men probably goes up if were talking about more than just sexual violence. Probably higher than women. If were only talking about sexual violence, it goes down. But probably not as much as you think. --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:924949273] in Do you guy... [t:77871100]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lirishae posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote> I dont think asking someone for sex out of the blue is creepy. Though, I guess it depends on what out of the blue means.</quote> Many dating sites will tell you that getting too sexual too fast or without first ascertaining she's interested creeps most women out. https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/ways-men-creep-women-out.html https://www.doctornerdlove.com/the-science-of-being-creepy/ https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-some-guys-creep-women-out-and-how-easily-avoid</quote> Idk enough about asking women for sex. But I do know many friends who hook-up with different of both genders who hook-up frequently. Thats why it depends on what you mean by out of the blue. But I have known many people who do just ask if someone wants to hook-up. Though, its probably more normal in the hook-up culture. And not as weird there... <cite>Lirishae posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>And I dont think most women plan their lives around being assault, raped, etc... And that honestly sounds ridiculous.</quote> That's not what I said. They plan their lives to minimize the risk of being assaulted, raped, etc. Women face the threat of violence just minding their own business and trying to go about their daily lives. Yes, men face violence as well, but generally not sexual violence, and their risk of being killed comes from much different sources. As I posted before, the FBI stated that most male homicides occur from arguments over status. The majority of female homicides, on the other hand, stem from men killing their romantic partners. The idea of getting into an argument does not significantly change most men's behavior. The threat of violence however causes many women to change their routines, often in ways they don't consciously consider. https://www.salon.com/2013/08/12/five_ways_that_staying_safe_costs_women/</quote> Thats the thing. I dont think they do anything significantly different than men. As the other poster said, its more of a human thing to avoid certain situations more than a women thing. Like its not just women who shouldnt run errands alone at night. No one should. Sure. Women might try to avoid certain situations that are bad for them. But so do men... <cite>Lirishae posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>And makes me think you either havent interacted with many women, have seriously misread them, and have only interacted with woman of a specific group or area (i.e. victims or people who live in a bad area).</quote> Nope. As gently as I can say this, you don't seem to know a lot about violence and abuse against women. I've been posting a lot of facts and links, while your argument boils down to calling this ridiculous based on nothing more than your own personal experience. If you research what experts are saying about violence against women, you'll generally find the same information I've posted.</quote> And as we stated before, most of those are educated guesses. With any crime/statistic, youll usually dont have 100% accuracy. But its even worse with statistic of sexual assault, or even just violence. As many dont report things out of embarrassment. But even with normal violence, like a fight, it may not get reported. Because of either embarrassment, or because they dont think its a big deal. So, it hard to believe random stats, especially when they can contradict other stats. So, the stat on violence against men probably goes up if were talking about more than just sexual violence. Probably higher than women. If were only talking about sexual violence, it goes down. But probably not as much as you think. --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Topic List	Page List: 1