LogFAQs > #924851463

I'm still not entirely sure I understand the question, but if it's a matter of "We're all alone out here and I could totally rape you if I wanted to, so you should just consent so we don't have to go through all that unpleasantness," then I'd definitely call that rapey, if not necessarily qualifying for rape charges. It's pretty clearly using the thinly-veiled threat of forcible rape to coerce the person into non-forcible sex, and coercing people into sex is also bad.

Bottom line: If you're wondering if a scheme to convince a girl to sleep with you is rape or not, ask yourself if she'd be willing to sleep with you without the scheme. If the answer is anything other than a definite "yes," you probably shouldn't do it. Stick to sex where you are certain you have consent.