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Topic	Any incels here?
Hannyabal 07/13/19 1:00:34 PM #323:	MariaTaylor posted... Hannyabal posted... Interesting. I would expect at that age that women (and men, even) might be using tinder differently than people around my age (22-25ish) and that might account for some of the differences. Societal expectations about marriage, etc. are definitely different and more women might exclusively be looking for something that could potentially be long term. Whereas theres not a whole lot of women at 22-25 only looking for that. could be. I have my age range set pretty wide (18-36). but I know a lot of people are going to use 30 as the cutoff point so I'm not even showing up in their potential matches. Hannyabal posted... Whenever I delete my account and start completely fresh, I usually end up with around 25ish matches per day for the first couple weeks (as people out there who have essentially already swiped on everyone in the area are shown my profile within a few days) and then maybe 5ish a day after that. oh yeah, wow. if that amount of matches is normal then I'm probably wasting my time. I mean, part of it comes down to how well you can market yourself from the pics and bio and set yourself apart from other guys on the app. If you have even semi-decent pictures (no selfies, relatively good quality), that should give you a big boost. I feel like I can do a decent job of making my bio stand out, just because I live in a large city in the South but Im nothing like a typical Southern guy in looks or personality and I think that making that come across helps a lot. Im sure that changing your bio up could help you have a lot more success too. <cite>Hannyabal posted [p:924632870] in Any incels... [t:77848127]...</cite> <quote><cite>MariaTaylor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Hannyabal posted...</cite> <quote>Interesting. I would expect at that age that women (and men, even) might be using tinder differently than people around my age (22-25ish) and that might account for some of the differences. Societal expectations about marriage, etc. are definitely different and more women might exclusively be looking for something that could potentially be long term. Whereas theres not a whole lot of women at 22-25 only looking for that. </quote> could be. I have my age range set pretty wide (18-36). but I know a lot of people are going to use 30 as the cutoff point so I'm not even showing up in their potential matches. <cite>Hannyabal posted...</cite> <quote>Whenever I delete my account and start completely fresh, I usually end up with around 25ish matches per day for the first couple weeks (as people out there who have essentially already swiped on everyone in the area are shown my profile within a few days) and then maybe 5ish a day after that.</quote> oh yeah, wow. if that amount of matches is normal then I'm probably wasting my time.</quote> I mean, part of it comes down to how well you can market yourself from the pics and bio and set yourself apart from other guys on the app. If you have even semi-decent pictures (no selfies, relatively good quality), that should give you a big boost. I feel like I can do a decent job of making my bio stand out, just because I live in a large city in the South but Im nothing like a typical Southern guy in looks or personality and I think that making that come across helps a lot. Im sure that changing your bio up could help you have a lot more success too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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