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MariaTaylor posted...

32.

just moved to a fairly major city. the exact spot where I live isn't really urban though so I guess suburbs.

also that 6th person who hadn't responded back, got back to me. seemed promising at first but turned out to be another scammer.

so 1/3 of my mutual matches so far have been bots or scammers. 1/2 have had no chemistry one way or the other. and the remaining 1/6 unmatched me within about 4 hours, before I had time to reply.

Interesting. I would expect at that age that women (and men, even) might be using tinder differently than people around my age (22-25ish) and that might account for some of the differences. Societal expectations about marriage, etc. are definitely different and more women might exclusively be looking for something that could potentially be long term. Whereas theres not a whole lot of women at 22-25 only looking for that.

Whenever I delete my account and start completely fresh, I usually end up with around 25ish matches per day for the first couple weeks (as people out there who have essentially already swiped on everyone in the area are shown my profile within a few days) and then maybe 5ish a day after that.

Bots happen from time to time, but usually their profiles have nonsensical grammar or slightly out of focus pictures and you can kind of avoid them off of that. Ultimately, Id say I probably have ~60% response rate for anyone I actually choose to message. I cant say ive really experienced people who unmatch before a conversation - maybe she deleted her account?