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Hannyabal 07/11/19 6:14:06 PM #291: | foolm0r0n posted... Hannyabal posted...At that point Ill actually make a judgement of whether I want to message them or not. Im not really interested in having the same oh where do you work? Whered you go to school, etc conversation a million times, so i try and pick out something about them that I actually am interested in learning more about. at this point, that conversation should feel natural and you should just bail if it doesnt I still tend to disagree. Aside from a small portion of women who will swipe right on almost everyone and rack up hundreds and hundreds of matches a week, its really only your pictures/bio that has to beat 100 other people (at least for apps where you have to mutually swipe each other before you can have a conversation, Im sure its different when anyone can message you without matching). Youve essentially already beaten the odds at that point. After sending 1-2 messages you should be able to tell if shes willing to engage or reciprocate or energy, and if not then you move on, same as in a bar. And its not impossible to tell if theres any spark at all. Ive been able to call my shot with regard to seeing a girl off of tinder for multiple dates within the first couple messages many times. It could just be that I have a well-defined type, but I think the odds on that are far better than just trying to meet random people at bars. It might take more effort, depending on your personality (though i would maintain that trying to meet women IRL through any method other than having mutual friends is far more exhausting), but the trade-off is that theres so much less random chance. I can control who I match with on tinder and cater that toward the type of person Im interested in but theres no guarantee whatsoever that anyone youre interested in will be at the bar/club/library/whatever. Plus, you know that (almost) everyone on a dating app is actually single. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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