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Topic	No excuse for anyone to not have an SO.
KogaSteelfang 12/15/18 8:55:36 AM #30:	SpiralDrift posted... I do know how you feel. I went through all of that when I was younger. I also had people telling me that I was attractive enough and they couldn't understand why I hadn't been with anyone yet. You hear those things but it doesn't mesh with how you feel so it's hard to accept. And even if you can accept it it's like it still doesn't matter. I remember being really embarrassed about being a virgin, but at a certain point I just stopped trying to sugar coat it since it didn't seem to help anyway, but to my surprise that somehow made a difference. I stopped showing any sign of shame. This is how I am, take it or leave it. Ultimately what I found was that if a girl is attracted to you it won't make any difference unless it makes a difference to you. If you're not a virgin, she'll envision you as a stud. If you are, she'll just weave some other fantasy around you with her as the star. It can even be a good thing to some. That all hinges on actually attracting someone. I wish I could attract someone, but I can't. GasMonkey posted... KogaSteelfang posted... Why would someone choose to burden themselves with a person like me? I am 100% completely undeserving of any form of love. I'm nothing but a piece of shit, not even worth acknowledging. Loads of people agree too, so why even bother? I'd just ruin their life too if someone somehow managed to like me. well tbh... if this is where your mind is, then yeah youre correct. self fulfilling prophecy and all that. gotta love yourself and just be you before you have a chance at attracting and keeping a SO It was fulfilled before I started thinking that way. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:914161176] in No excuse ... [t:77304022]...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>I do know how you feel. I went through all of that when I was younger. I also had people telling me that I was attractive enough and they couldn't understand why I hadn't been with anyone yet. You hear those things but it doesn't mesh with how you feel so it's hard to accept. And even if you can accept it it's like it still doesn't matter. I remember being really embarrassed about being a virgin, but at a certain point I just stopped trying to sugar coat it since it didn't seem to help anyway, but to my surprise that somehow made a difference. I stopped showing any sign of shame. This is how I am, take it or leave it. Ultimately what I found was that if a girl is attracted to you it won't make any difference unless it makes a difference to you. If you're not a virgin, she'll envision you as a stud. If you are, she'll just weave some other fantasy around you with her as the star. It can even be a good thing to some.</quote> That all hinges on actually attracting someone. I wish I could attract someone, but I can't. <cite>GasMonkey posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>Why would someone choose to burden themselves with a person like me? I am 100% completely undeserving of any form of love. I'm nothing but a piece of shit, not even worth acknowledging. Loads of people agree too, so why even bother? I'd just ruin their life too if someone somehow managed to like me.</quote> well tbh... if this is where your mind is, then yeah youre correct. self fulfilling prophecy and all that. gotta love yourself and just be you before you have a chance at attracting and keeping a SO</quote> It was fulfilled before I started thinking that way. --- Work in progress, please be patient.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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