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The friends that I hang out with.. are introverts who have no drive to better themselves and are really boring. I'm a boring guy too, but that's exactly why I don't want to hang out with people like me(I do have drive).

I have an ex co worker from a previous job who asks me to meet him at the same restaurant every weekend.. and he wears the same clothes and awful bowl cut.. We don't have a ton in common outside of games, and occasionally talk about games and catching up with work. But its all the same and boring.. It's especially bad when he starts talking about his PS4 collection, which I don't have and give a fuck. It's gotten so bad that I make excuses to not hang out with him to the same place. I feel bad.. I don't mind being acquaintance. but I'd rather be alone than hang out with someone who is super boring and can't have a simulating conversation with. And he's gotten so clingy when I don't meet up with him for the past two weeks. I'm going to lose a job reference if I lose this guy.. but I hope people understand how i feel.

I'm just tired of attracting the same people.. I want to hang out with people as the same level me or better, socially and I can learn a thing or two. I have friends that do fit that mold, but they live far away or have their own friends. It sucks.
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