That is awful phrasing don't strictly for shock value and I do not think Aretha Franklin's funeral is the best place to do this.
He is right that the typical black household is in shambles but that's the case in most low income environments anyway which is what he's talking about. It is also straight up wrong to act as though single mothers can't raise black boys and have them to develop into upstanding men.
He is wrong in saying that no one does anything. Tons of people speak out about black and black crime and a lot of things are being done in communities to try to decrease the violence. It isn't like people only focus on one issue at a time.