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Chewster posted...

I have several questions:

- How long have you known her?
- Have you seriously been waiting this whole time for her to become available?
- Do you really want to date somebody who has a kid?
- Do you really think there isn't anybody else out there?

And that's not getting into how tacky the whole situation is. There are other girls out there for you. And if you don't believe that to be true, then you shouldn't be trying to date anybody, including her, until you fix whatever is wrong with yourself that makes you undatable.

Known her about 6 1/2 years. more than an acquaintance, less than a good friend. We hung out in the same social circles.
No, I haven't been waiting for her specifically. She was never available when we hung out, so I never tried. We're both a little older, even if I don't date her then it's still a 50/50 that any woman I try to date has a kid if not multiple. It's not that I don't think there's anyone else out there, it's just that I'm now busy with a career and building a life. I don't have all the time in the world to do a lot of first dates and weeding through potential candidates. I know her and her personality, and she's always been a really loyal person with a good heart.