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ImAMarvel posted...

Kineth posted...

Because being able to handle rejection and bouncing back or being able to work past the initial rejection are important skills to have.

Okay but it really seems like rejecting a man because he's a virgin and/or doesn't have any relationship experience is damn near ubiquitous among women. Doesn't it seem kind of close-minded for that to be an automatic "no"?

What's your point? I already said I don't think it's fair. Don't hate the player, hate the game. You're focusing on the wrong thing.

This is a supposition on my part, but I'd wager that some of the reasoning behind the rejection has to do with how said virgin portrays themselves. Honestly, the biggest thing I learned after losing my virginity is that it really doesn't matter that much. Some people might suspect that if you're a virgin, you'll become too clingy after doing the act, which is a realistic possibility, but unfair to assume.

I guess to end this rant before it gets out of hand, how you act may have more to do with it than the virginity itself.
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